{"id":7061,"date":"2023-12-18T18:04:06","date_gmt":"2023-12-18T12:34:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/perthescortsdirectory.com.au\/blog\/are-narcissists-capable-of-love\/"},"modified":"2023-12-18T18:04:06","modified_gmt":"2023-12-18T12:34:06","slug":"are-narcissists-capable-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perthescortsdirectory.com.au\/blog\/are-narcissists-capable-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Are Narcissists Capable Of Love?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<p>Are narcissists capable of love? This is a question that weighs on the minds of a lot of people who have endured the narcissistic love patterns of idealization, devaluation, discarding, and hoovering. If you\u2019re wrestling with it too, know that you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n<p>We understand how emotionally draining and tumultuous a relationship with a narcissist can be. And it can leave you convinced that the person perpetuating all this chaos in your life cannot possibly be capable of love. However, in reality, a narcissist can technically love someone but their feelings are fleeting and superficial at best.<\/p>\n<p>What does \u201cfleeting and superficial\u201d mean? How does it translate into their behavior in a relationship? To help you find the answers, let\u2019s take a deeper look at the intricacies of a narcissist in love in consultation with California-based psychiatrist and Cognitive Behavior Therapist <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/shefali-batra-mindframes\/\">Dr. Shefali Batra<\/a> (MD in psychiatry), who specializes in counseling for separation and divorce, breakup and dating, and premarital compatibility issues. But first, let\u2019s make sure you understand who a narcissist really is.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Who_Is_A_Narcissist\"\/>Who Is A Narcissist?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>The word narcissist is often casually thrown around to define anyone with an inflated need for admiration and attention, and a self-centered attitude. However, not everyone who enjoys more than a healthy dose of self-love is a narcissist.<\/p>\n<p>Another common misconception is that exhibiting narcissistic behavior is the same as having narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). However, that\u2019s far from the truth too. Narcissism exists on a spectrum and only people on the highest end of this spectrum are considered to have narcissistic personality disorder.<\/p>\n<p>According to the <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/psychiatrists\/practice\/dsm\">Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th edition (DSM-5)<\/a>, a person can be diagnosed with NDP if they exhibit five or more of the following traits:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Inflated sense of self-importance<\/li>\n<li>Displays of grandiosity<\/li>\n<li>Arrogant attitudes and behavior<\/li>\n<li>Envy toward other<\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/signs-of-lack-of-empathy-in-relationships\/\">Lack of empathy<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Exploiting others for own advantage<\/li>\n<li>Preoccupation with fantasies about unlimited power, intelligence, beauty, or success<\/li>\n<li>Excessive need for admiration<\/li>\n<li>Sense of entitlement<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><noscript><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Are you dating a narcissist? | Swaty Prakash x Bonobology\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bLTeY9Jv4wc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/noscript><\/div>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">For more expert-backed insights, please subscribe to our <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@Bonobology\">YouTube channel<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dr. Batra says, \u201cNarcissism is characterized by a lack of self-worth, low self-esteem, and incomplete sense of self-identity that results in a dysfunctional thought process, which is expressed outwardly as self-focused, unempathetic, and attention-seeking behavior.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This distinction is important because according to a US-centric <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/books\/NBK556001\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">research<\/span><\/a>, only 0.5%-5% of adults have NPD. If an individual has a few narcissistic tendencies, they may still be able to experience and express love almost the same way as any other person would. And if you\u2019re with such a person, you wouldn\u2019t be asking, \u201cIs a narcissistic person capable of love?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sure, there may be some relationship challenges along the way. \u201cHowever, these traits in people on the lower end of the narcissism spectrum are too mild to affect their ability to love another person. On the other hand, NPD traits impede a person\u2019s ability to love another, at least in a way that most people understand love,\u201d Dr. Batra adds.<\/p>\n<p>Now that we\u2019ve cleared that up, let\u2019s help you address a few other questions that will help you navigate your situation better: Are narcissists capable of love? How does a narcissist show love?<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/example-of-narcissistic-behavior-in-a-relationship\/\">What Are The Examples Of Narcissistic Behavior In A Relationship?<\/a> <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_To_Know_If_A_Narcissist_Loves_You\"\/>How To Know If A Narcissist Loves You<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Narcissism and love rarely go well together. Sure, a narcissist, charming and charismatic as they are, may sweep you off your feet with their grand gestures and displays of love. At that stage, questions like are narcissists affectionate or how does a narcissist show love wouldn\u2019t even cross your mind because the person in front of you feels just so perfect and right.<\/p>\n<p>However, as narcissistic love patterns go, this stage \u2014 known as idealization and characterized by <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/love-bombing\/\">love-bombing<\/a> \u2014 is often short-lived and transactional (contingent on how well and for how long it serves their need for narcissistic supply). Because of this, they struggle to maintain healthy connections in their life or genuine feelings for another person.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><picture><source data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you.jpg.webp 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-300x168.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-800x448.jpg.webp 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-768x430.jpg.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" type=\"image\/webp\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1250\" height=\"700\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" alt=\"how to know if a narcissist loves you\" class=\"wp-image-501955 webpexpress-processed\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-800x448.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-768x430.jpg 768w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1250\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you.jpg\" alt=\"how to know if a narcissist loves you\" class=\"wp-image-501955 webpexpress-processed\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-800x448.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-to-know-if-a-narcissist-loves-you-768x430.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\"\/><\/noscript><\/source><\/picture><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Narcissism and love rarely go well together<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The bottom line is, it\u2019s rare to see a narcissist fall in love permanently. So, if you\u2019re wondering how to know if a narcissist loves you, ask yourself:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do they take your needs and feelings into consideration?<\/li>\n<li>Do they treat you with respect?<\/li>\n<li>Do they take responsibility for their actions?<\/li>\n<li>Can they appreciate you?<\/li>\n<li>Do they honor your boundaries in the relationship?<\/li>\n<li>Do they value your opinions and emotions?<\/li>\n<li>And most importantly, are they able to put your needs first even in situations they stand to gain nothing in return?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you\u2019ve answered these questions in the affirmative, you have a narcissist in love with you. However, Dr. Batra warns, \u201cThe chances of that happening are slim to none in most cases because a narcissist can\u2019t love unless they are willing to work on fixing their behavior and their thought patterns. This requires a great deal of self-reflection and introspection, which can be overwhelming and even a scary proposition for a narcissist.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>More often than not, a narcissist would much rather resort to scapegoating, <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/gaslighting-in-relationships\/\">gaslighting<\/a>, and other manipulation tactics rather than do the inner work to break free from their patterns.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/phrases-to-shut-down-gaslighting\/\">33 Phrases To Shut Down Gaslighting And Silence Gaslighters<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are_Narcissists_Capable_Of_Love\"\/>Are Narcissists Capable Of Love?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Are narcissists capable of love? This can be a tricky question to address because narcissistic love is often self-serving, much like every other aspect of their existence, and far removed from the notions of meaningful connections and <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/characteristics-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\">healthy relationships<\/a> that others associate with love.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Batra explains, \u201cThe problem about narcissists being capable of love stems from the fact that their cup of love to offer is already full. They only love themselves. The lack of love in the earlier days of life, especially from caregivers [parents] makes them struggle through their life to feel and be accepted. They function from a space of deficit.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you see it from an evolutionary standpoint their self-love is justified because they never got it from anyone. But in the real world, it is unreasonable, unacceptable, and outright dysfunctional. So they turn toward those who care for them \u2014 that\u2019s why <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/narcissist-vs-empath-toxic-relationship\/\">empaths and narcissists<\/a> often attract one another \u2014 but the relationship is purely transactional and not the genuine love that you see elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey will give care and attention back but the moment this loved object opposes them or doesn\u2019t feed their ego, they will outright reject them and feel miserable from within too.\u201d So, to answer your question \u2014 is a narcissistic person capable of love? \u2014 not in the real sense of the word. Dr. Batra lists the reasons why a narcissist can\u2019t love another person fully and whole-heartedly:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>They do not care for or feel close to anyone because their brain is not geared to do so<\/li>\n<li>They cannot look beyond their own needs<\/li>\n<li>They possess such an overpowering self-preservation instinct that their hypervigilance and emotional reactivity to rejection makes them highly impulsive<\/li>\n<li>Insecure inner working models make them perceive themselves as unworthy or unwanted<\/li>\n<li>Pathologically uncomfortable in scenarios where they\u2019re not the center of attention<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/ways-get-out-unhealthy-relationship\/\">How To Get Out Of An Unhealthy Relationship: A Step-by-Step Guide<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u201cIf there\u2019s a narcissist in love with you, or at least claims to be, to assess the authenticity of their feelings, you need to look beyond their words \u2014 which they have a way with \u2014 and see how they treat you. If they actually treat you with respect, care, and concern, they may have some sort of feelings for you,\u201d she adds.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, it boils down to the fact that a narcissist can technically love another person but it won\u2019t even be the wholesome, unconditional love you\u2019d expect in an intimate relationship. They can\u2019t genuinely love someone.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_does_a_narcissist_think_love_is\"\/>What does a narcissist think love is?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>As we said, a narcissist can technically love but their idea of what love feels like can be skewed. Dr. Batra says, \u201cNarcissistic love is devoid of the notion of reciprocity. For a narcissist, love is a means to seek external validation to boost their self-esteem and feel better about themselves. They continue to experience what they believe is love as long as this need is met. That\u2019s why it\u2019s rare to see a narcissist fall in love permanently.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><picture><source data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love.jpg.webp 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-300x168.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-800x448.jpg.webp 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-768x430.jpg.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" type=\"image\/webp\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1250\" height=\"700\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" alt=\"how does a narcissist show love\" class=\"wp-image-501956 webpexpress-processed\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-800x448.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-768x430.jpg 768w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1250\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love.jpg\" alt=\"how does a narcissist show love\" class=\"wp-image-501956 webpexpress-processed\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-800x448.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/how-does-a-narcissist-show-love-768x430.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\"\/><\/noscript><\/source><\/picture><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Narcissistic love is self-serving <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>If you\u2019re wondering, \u201cCan a narcissist love?\u201d, know that what they perceive as love is aligned with their pervasive patterns of need for attention, self-importance, and admiration. A narcissist\u2019s love, ultimately, boils down to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sense of entitlement that makes them feel that love is owed to them<\/li>\n<li>Need for unconditional admiration from their partners<\/li>\n<li>Grand displays of affection and expressions of undying love without any meaningful connection<\/li>\n<li>An exhilarating sense of excitement that makes them feel good about themselves<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This results in a superficial bond that often paves the way for a one-sided and <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/warning-signs-toxic-relationship\/\">toxic dynamic<\/a> as the relationship progresses.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><strong>Related Reading:<\/strong> <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/grey-rock-method\/\">Grey Rock Method: Meaning, Techniques, And Ways To Use It Effectively<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_does_a_narcissist_show_love\"\/>How does a narcissist show love?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Are narcissists affectionate? Yes, a narcissist can be immensely affectionate, charming, disarming, and loving, especially at the beginning of a romance. But is a narcissistic person capable of love? I think, by now, you know the answer to that question is a clear, resounding no \u2014 at least, as long as you\u2019re viewing their understanding and expression of love from the standpoint of what love looks like in a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s crucial to be aware of this connection between narcissism and love to not get swept up by the way a narcissist shows love. According to Dr. Batra, this includes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Being obsessed with the need to be adored and admired by their romantic partners<\/li>\n<li><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/romantic-manipulation\/\">Romantic manipulation<\/a> through grand displays of affection<\/li>\n<li>Love-bombing their partners<\/li>\n<li>Sweeping them off their feet with gifts and compliments<\/li>\n<li>Always saying the right things at the right time to charm and disarm<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This results in an emotionally charged relationship that can be hard to sustain, resulting in intense highs and lows. A <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/27560609\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span><\/a> published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology suggests that this is primarily why <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/reasons-narcissists-cant-maintain-intimate-relationship\/\">narcissists fail at long-term<\/a>, committed relationships but might excel at short-term dating.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bit.ly\/3SOnDxE\"><picture><source data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism.jpg.webp 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-300x168.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-800x448.jpg.webp 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/webp-express\/webp-images\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-768x430.jpg.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" type=\"image\/webp\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1250\" height=\"700\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" alt=\"More on narcissim\" class=\"wp-image-498468 webpexpress-processed\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-800x448.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-768x430.jpg 768w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1250\" height=\"700\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism.jpg\" alt=\"More on narcissim\" class=\"wp-image-498468 webpexpress-processed\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-800x448.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/on-narcissism-768x430.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\"\/><\/noscript><\/source><\/picture><\/a><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_To_Do_If_You%E2%80%99re_In_Love_With_A_Narcissist\"\/>What To Do If You\u2019re In Love With A Narcissist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>To <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/narcissistic-husband\/\">live with a narcissist<\/a> and be happy is like trying to fill a bucket with a giant hole at the bottom. If you\u2019re in love with a narcissist, self-preservation should be your top priority and that begins by understanding that real love is not self-serving, exploitative, envious, or boastful. But when you\u2019re in a relationship with a narcissist, that\u2019s what you get in the name of love. Peppered with toxicity, drama, and trauma. Because when a narcissist knows you love him\/her, that\u2019s why they unleash the whole gamut of their toxic tendencies on you.<\/p>\n<p>You may find yourself at the receiving end of gaslighting, love bombing, manipulation, and even abuse. If things have escalated to the extent of abuse, you need to reach out for help.<\/p>\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\"><strong>If you are in immediate danger, call 9-1-1.<br \/>For anonymous, confidential help, 24\/7, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).<\/strong><\/h6>\n<p>However, if you\u2019ve spotted your partner\u2019s narcissistic tendencies early on, there are ways to navigate the relationship and minimize the emotional harm it may cause you. While it may not be realistic to expect that you can live with a narcissist and be happy, the following steps can help you protect yourself:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Establish boundaries:<\/strong> It\u2019s crucial to establish and enforce <a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bonobology.com\/healthy-relationship-boundaries\/\">healthy relationship boundaries<\/a> when you\u2019re in a relationship with a narcissist. If done early on, this can go a long way in keeping you safe from narcissistic abuse<\/li>\n<li><strong>Practice self-care:<\/strong> Don\u2019t lose yourself in the relationship. Your partner\u2019s need for admiration, attention, and adoration is a bottomless pit. You need to reset from time to time, reassess your priorities, and refocus on yourself<\/li>\n<li><strong>Educate yourself:<\/strong> Knowledge and awareness about what you\u2019re dealing with is the best way to combat it effectively. Learn as much as you can about narcissistic personality disorder and its ramifications on relationships. This will equip you to address relationship problems as they arise<\/li>\n<li><strong>Seek counseling:<\/strong> The emotional toll and trauma of being in love with a narcissist can be huge. Therapy offers a safe space for you to explore the many confusing emotions you may be struggling with and process them. The process can be immensely beneficial in helpful in identifying your own triggers, developing coping skills, and figuring out what you want for yourself<\/li>\n<li><strong>Encourage your partner to get help:<\/strong> NPD is a serious mental health disorder that requires the right treatment and help. However, people afflicted by it are often not open to the idea of seeking help because they are not ready to accept that something is wrong with them. While you can\u2019t make your partner get the help they need, it can be helpful to encourage them to seek it by normalizing this idea for them<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"key-pointer\">\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Key_Pointers\"\/>Key Pointers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>A narcissist may not feel or express love in the same ways that others do because their brain is not geared to do so<\/li>\n<li>While a narcissist may experience romantic feelings and love for someone, they just view it as a means of external validating and seeking an ego boost<\/li>\n<li>A may continue to portray feelings of love for a person as long as they offer them their narcissistic supply through unconditional love and adoration<\/li>\n<li>When a narcissist knows you love him\/her, they may come at you with the whole gamut of their toxic tendencies \u2014 gaslighting, manipulation, abuse<\/li>\n<li>To be able to deal with being in love with a narcissist, you must set boundaries, prioritize self-care, and seek professional help<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>All in all, narcissism and love don\u2019t mix well. If you came here hoping for a different answer to \u201cAre narcissists capable of love\u201d, we\u2019re sorry to have disappointed you. But opening your eyes to the reality of the situation is absolutely crucial for being able to deal with it to the best of your ability. And that\u2019s what we\u2019re here for. 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