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Connection in long-term relationships is a mental state and a choice. We choose to feel connected and choose to feel disconnected. In general, life is better when we choose to feel connected.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve tried to improve your connection and failed, it was likely due to a default attitude of disconnection<\/em>. One or both of you consistently acted on habits of blame, denial<\/a>, and avoidance. With an attitude of disconnection, all attempts to negotiate turn into coercion or manipulation, due to the overwhelming subtext:<\/p>\n

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I can\u2019t connect with you until you do what I want or think the way I want you to think.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

In an attitude of disconnection, every disagreement causes emotional divorce<\/a>.<\/p>\n

With an attitude of connection<\/em>, specific behaviors are negotiable but not the connection itself:<\/p>\n

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We need to\u2026 (for example, respect each other) to enhance the connection we both value.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I once saw a research recording of interviews with couples in long-term happy marriages. One couple was married for 60 years. They asked the wife if, in all those years, she ever thought about divorce. She replied immediately and incredulously:<\/p>\n

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Divorce<\/em>? No!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

After a moment, she shrugged and said with a tiny smile:<\/p>\n

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Murder maybe, but never divorce.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Aside from the humor<\/a> of her response (and she wasn\u2019t trying to be funny), she made a point that distinguishes long-term happy relationships from terrible ones. When you live together, your partner will occasionally do things that irritate you and you might get pretty angry.<\/p>\n

But you always know that the negative feeling will pass and what really matters is the connection.<\/p>\n

How to Develop an Attitude of Connection<\/h2>\n

Regard yourself as connected.<\/strong> <\/strong>An easy way is to make a simple semantic shift. Clinicians know that unhappy couples think and speak in terms of \u201cMe,\u201d \u201cI,\u201d \u201cYou,\u201d \u201cMine,\u201d and \u201cYours.\u201d Happy partners (with an attitude of connection) think and speak in the plural: \u201cWe,\u201d \u201cUs,\u201d \u201cOur,\u201d and \u201cOurs.\u201d<\/p>\n

Working \u201cwe, us, ours\u201d into your everyday vocabulary strengthens your attitude of connection. Try writing this sentence a few times to see how it feels to you:<\/p>\n

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We<\/em> want our<\/em> relationship to bring us<\/em> the safety, security, love, and happiness<\/a> we<\/em> both want and deserve.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Behave as if you\u2019re connected. <\/em><\/strong>Avoid the trap of waiting until you feel closer to behave in loving ways. When you behave as if you are connected, you\u2019re likely to think more like a couple and begin to feel more connected. Feelings follow behavior more than the other way around.<\/p>\n

Root your connection in common values. <\/em><\/strong>Deep connection is not based on shared preferences of what you like and enjoy. Rather, it\u2019s based on shared values. Common interests often attract people, but shared values sustain relationships.<\/p>\n

A couple whose connection is based on common interests, without shared values, will likely become competitive in their interests. For example, partners who were initially attracted because they shared the joy of hiking in nature, will soon try to hike farther or faster than each other.<\/p>\n

With an attitude of connection, they\u2019ll place more importance on sharing the experience of hiking in each other\u2019s company.<\/p>\n

Build lifelines. <\/em><\/strong>Like the cords that spacewalking astronauts use to stay attached to their vehicles, emotional lifelines provide freedom of movement and a life-saving connection. As a relationship metaphor, lifelines keep us anchored to what matters most.<\/p>\n

Imagine a long, flexible lifeline that constantly connects you and your partner. No matter what you\u2019re doing or feeling, you remain connected. Even when angry at each other, or when you need a time out to get away from each other, you\u2019re still connected.<\/p>\n

If you imagine a constant connection by an invisible lifeline, your unconscious<\/a> emotional demeanor around your partner will change for the better, increasing the likelihood of a positive response from your partner. Bad moments will occur less frequently and won’t trigger disconnection when they do occur.<\/p>\n

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Maintain goodwill. <\/em><\/strong>Stay focused on what is best for both of you. You both want to be well, with neither of you feeling put down, taken advantage of, devalued, or disregarded. Appreciate how your partner enriches your life and that will encourage your partner to do the same.<\/p>\n

Engage in a spirit of cooperation<\/a>. <\/em><\/strong>Work together as a team for the best interests of your family. Remember always that the valued self cooperates and the devalued self resists. Give the value you want to receive.<\/p>\n

Seek to understand each other. <\/strong>Rather than argue, try to understand each other\u2019s perspectives. Instead of refuting or contradicting your partner, ask for and add more information.<\/p>\n

Try to be flexible. <\/em><\/strong>Life is cruel to the rigid but generally kind to the flexible. Be as flexible as you can, while respecting your deeper values, and you\u2019ll be happier and love better.<\/p>\n

Establish brief but frequent routine rituals of connection<\/strong>. The principle of small moments of connection has interesting empirical support in the work of Barbara Fredrickson. Her research shows that what she calls, \u201cmicro moments of love,\u201d improve individual health and well-being as well as relationships.<\/p>\n

Small gestures of connection\u2014eye contact, a smile, a gentle touch\u2014built into your daily routine, do wonders to create a stable attitude of connection.<\/p>\n

In contrast, special events, like romantic weekends or nice vacations, while they may be pleasant or enjoyable, are often followed by a let-down, when the unsustainable wave of well-being crashes back into the routine of daily living. Don\u2019t get me wrong, romantic weekends, nice vacations, and the like are good for relationships, if<\/em> there is also routine connection.<\/p>\n

The safety and security that maintain satisfying relationships rise from a steady attitude of connection, rather than big waves of emotional experience. The secret to loving big is thinking small.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n

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