How to tell if a guy likes you?\u00a0<\/p>\n
There\u2019s a difference between a guy who genuinely does<\/em> like you, and a guy who is just using you,<\/strong><\/a> or pulling your strings.\u00a0<\/p>\n It\u2019s important to understand the difference.\u00a0<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t know the difference, you could get dragged into the wrong kind of \u201csituationship\u201d with a guy.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Does he actually like me or is he just pulling my strings?<\/strong><\/p>\n Does he actually like you or does he want to use you?<\/p>\n What does it mean if a guy is \u201cjust pulling my strings?\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n It means that he is stringing you along<\/strong><\/a> or just keeping you around, but he doesn\u2019t really want a real relationship with you.<\/p>\n In other words, it is of value to him, to keep your attention on him for as long as possible without having to commit to you.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n A guy who really does<\/em> like you will give specific, undeniable signs that he likes you.<\/p>\n In fact, it\u2019s important for you to know that a man being \u2018in love\u2019 with you is actually worth far more than him \u2018liking\u2019 you! Here\u2019s an article on the 5 Unusual Signs He\u2019s Madly in love with you.<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n Would you like to discover how naturally feminine you are? CLICK HERE to find out with my specially crafted 9 Question Quiz!<\/a><\/strong> <\/p>\n CLICK HERE to LEARN the one specific emotional trigger <\/span><\/b>within every masculine man that inspires him to want to take care of you, worship you and deeply commit to you.<\/a><\/p>\n It\u2019s not too hard to tell the difference between a guy being friendly versus just being friendly.<\/p>\n Having said that, there are<\/em> guys who send mixed signals, and mixed signals are usually a sign that he doesn\u2019t really <\/em><\/strong>like you. Also, beware of mixed signals, because he could be breadcrumbing you.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Here are the signs he genuinely likes you (and is not just being friendly):<\/p>\n Overall, there\u2019s a sense of detachment in a guy if he\u2019s just being friendly. That\u2019s not the case if he truly like you. If he likes you, you\u2019ll feel him caring about you.<\/p>\n Want to know how serious he is about you? You can find out with my free and quick quiz: Is your man serious about committing to you? CLICK HERE to find out with this specially crafted quiz!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Now for the 9 signs a guy likes you\u2026<\/p>\n Intense emotion is one of the signs that a guy is either feeling infatuation for you, or that he is experiencing that special, coveted emotion of romantic love.<\/p>\n Have you ever seen him stammer when talking to you? Does he shift his weight around nervously? Does he look flushed in the cheeks?<\/p>\n Does he seem anxious, awkward or painfully shy when talking to you, (but seems to speak and act normally around others?)<\/p>\n These are all clear signs he likes you.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s because it shows that he has intense, uncontrollable bodily responses to your presence. (Perhaps as well as intense emotions about you).\u00a0<\/p>\n What you want is a guy who indeed does have intense emotion about you.\u00a0<\/p>\n This is because without intense emotion, he will never want to get emotionally close to you.<\/p>\n If he doesn\u2019t get emotionally close to you, then your chances of him ever committing to a serious relationship with you are low.<\/p>\n If you\u2019d like to learn more about that, here\u2019s the real difference between the women men commit to, versus the women men leave.<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n If a guy is genuinely interested in you, he\u2019ll remember all the little things you\u2019ve said to him.<\/p>\n These are not the things that you ask<\/em><\/strong> him to remember about you.\u00a0<\/p>\n These are things that he remembers about you involuntarily!\u00a0<\/p>\n I say involuntarily, because a guy who really likes you will not be able to control his actions as much as you think he would.\u00a0He\u2019s paying attention to what you\u2019re saying because he can\u2019t even help it.<\/p>\n Your simple presence and existence causes his whole emotional state to change, and sometimes even causes him to change his behaviour unknowingly.<\/p>\n The fact that he focuses his attention on you (sometimes to the detriment of other people in his life), means that he\u2019s either falling in love with you<\/strong><\/a>, or beginning to feel infatuated with you and very much likes you.<\/p>\n What kinds of trivial things would he remember that you said or did?<\/p>\n Any normal everyday event or behaviour.<\/p>\n Such as the way you brushed your hair, the way you make your morning coffee, or the way you handed him the tomatoes while cooking.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s an example of a man remembering trivial things about a woman, from a Chinese poem called \u201cThe Bamboo Sleeping Mat\u2019.<\/p>\n This poem was written by a man whose hopeless infatuation with his beloved manifested in his words:<\/p>\n \u201cI cannot bear to put away the bamboo sleeping mat. That night I brought you home, I watched you roll it out.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n This man replayed and remembered such a simple, trivial action like this woman rolling out a bamboo sleeping mat.\u00a0<\/p>\n That\u2019s an undeniable sign that he likes her. In fact, I\u2019d say that means he LIKE <\/em><\/strong>likes her! In other words, it\u2019s not just infatuation, it\u2019s romantic interest.<\/p>\n Do you know the 17 attraction triggers that get a man\u2019s blood boiling uncontrollably? Discover more about my course, the 17 attraction triggers here.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n (The promise of this course is for you to discover the 17 Attraction Triggers that are guaranteed to make almost any man you wish to never look at another woman ever again.)<\/p>\n Of all the signs he likes you, this one is surprisingly important.<\/p>\n Why? Because it means he wants to be close to you.<\/p>\n And if he keeps things you own close to him, it means he\u2019s trying to hold on to things that remind him of you.\u00a0<\/p>\n But what kinds of items would he keep close?<\/p>\n Things like a pencil, a scarf with your perfume on it, a handkerchief (old school I know), or a piece of your hair that fell out.<\/p>\n This is about noticing if he has ever held on to, or kept seemingly worthless or trivial things that remind him of you.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re wondering what that might look like, let\u2019s say you happened to fold a paper origami. A paper crane for example.\u00a0<\/p>\n It seems insignificant, yet he wants to keep it, because to him, it\u2019s a symbol of you.<\/p>\n This is one of the clear signs he really likes you.<\/p>\n What to know how you can tell him that you like HIM?<\/p>\n Find out how in my article: How To Tell Him I Like Him: 3 Low Risk & High Value Ways.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n There are 7 common signs a woman is perceived as low value to all men, because men simply perceive value differently to women. Do you know what these signs are and how to avoid them like the plague? CLICK HERE to download this special report. <\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Jealousy gets a bad rap. People these days think that healthy people should never feel jealous, but that\u2019s just people trying to reduce the intensity of other people\u2019s emotions.<\/p>\n That\u2019s people trying to devalue<\/em><\/strong> human emotion.<\/p>\n And while I understand that jealousy can be a nuisance in a relationship \u2013 even deadly in some situations \u2013 it is a good sign that a guy likes you.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying he needs to be obsessed with you. I\u2019m suggesting that if a guy likes you, he\u2019ll feel some jealousy if other guys make a move on you or try to cut his grass.<\/p>\n How can you tell if he\u2019s feeling jealous? You\u2019ll see the subtle signs in his body language:<\/p>\n CLICK HERE to discover the ONE PHRASE <\/span><\/b>you can say to ANY man that will capture his attention, trigger his curiosity and make him hang onto every word you say! (Works like magic in a high vale non-needy way!)<\/a><\/p>\n Another of the signs a guy likes you is that he calls you his girlfriend in front of his acquaintances, friends and family.<\/p>\n Ok, so not all <\/em>guys will go out of their way to introduce you as their \u201cgirlfriend\u201d, for many reasons.<\/p>\n One reason is that perhaps he\u2019s not even close to his family. So why would he go out of his way to introduce you to them?<\/p>\n It may be because he\u2019s not aware that it\u2019s important to you.<\/p>\n Some guys are more introverted and just don\u2019t speak or say a whole lot.\u00a0<\/p>\n Perhaps they prefer to keep their relationship more private, but it doesn\u2019t always mean that they don\u2019t <\/em><\/strong>like you.<\/p>\n Be that as it may, my question to you is\u2026<\/p>\n They basically act like they aren\u2019t proud to introduce you to the people in their life.<\/strong><\/p>\n They may also ignore you or pull away<\/strong><\/a> when a more attractive or interesting woman comes along.<\/p>\n They may take you out to an event, but leave you alone and even seem to pretend that they are not really \u201cseeing\u201d you or together with you.\u00a0<\/p>\n They might seem almost embarrassed about saying that you guys are an \u201citem\u201d, and at the same time avoid having to introduce you as his girlfriend. Especially to more attractive women.<\/p>\n In other words, if a guy doesn\u2019t really like you, then being around him will only add to your feelings of inadequacy.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n A guy who likes you wouldn\u2019t trigger your feelings of inadequacy carelessly like that.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong, in every GOOD relationship, you are bound to be triggered to feel inadequate at some point. That\u2019s normal.<\/p>\n However, it\u2019s not <\/em><\/strong>normal to have a guy (repeatedly), carelessly trigger your feelings of\u00a0inadequacy.<\/strong><\/a> IF he likes you.<\/p>\n Instead, one of the undeniable signs a guy likes you is that he is super proud to not only show you off to people he knows, but he actively makes an effort to introduce you to them as his girlfriend!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Before we move onto the next sign, I want you to know something important.<\/p>\n Please always remember this. This will make or break your love life!<\/p>\n \u2026Just because a guy \u2018likes\u2019 you, doesn\u2019t mean he is serious about you. See this article on Is he serious about you or just \u201cinterested?\u201d critical distinction.<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n QUIZ TIME: Is your man serious about committing to you? CLICK HERE to find out with this specially crafted quiz!<\/span><\/b> (All the answers you seek about him lie within these 8 questions.)<\/a><\/p>\n This means that he will try his best to tailor the gifts he buys, to you. To who you are as a soul.<\/p>\n Related: 12 Concealed Signs He Is Pretending Not To Like You.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n I still remember from about 14 years ago when I used to sell perfume in big department stores here in Australia.<\/p>\n Of all the customers I served during every shift, male and female, there was one man who came in once looking for a special perfume for his wife.<\/p>\n He wasn\u2019t like all the other guys buying perfume as a Christmas gift for their wife\u2026he was different.\u00a0<\/p>\n He was meticulous, and he appeared to be so in order to purchase the right perfume for his wife.<\/p>\n The kind of perfume that would speak to her soul and enhance her delicacy.<\/p>\n I sprayed a few cards with different perfumes for him to smell and \u2018test\u2019.\u00a0<\/p>\n He wasn\u2019t a super tall, typically good looking man.\u00a0<\/p>\n He was a man of modest height. He was slim, still handsome and obviously a businessman, wearing a nice suit.<\/p>\n As he surveyed the different perfumes, he was taking his time to have a think.\u00a0<\/p>\n Then he said to me in this tender voice\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cI can\u2019t just get my wife anything. She\u2019s very small and delicate. I need just the right perfume for her that would make her happy and enhance how delicate she is.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n He used his free hand to indicate her small and unique frame, which he obviously cherished.<\/p>\n I was so touched by the purity of his gesture.\u00a0<\/p>\n He was doing what he did out of sincere love and care for her, and that was clear.<\/p>\n I couldn\u2019t hold back my smile if I tried. What a sweet, loving thing to say.\u00a0<\/p>\n More than that, what a sweet approach he had to finding his wife the right perfume (that would suit her perfectly).<\/p>\n Here are 5 unconventional ways to make him love you more.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Now onto sign number 7 for how to know if a guy likes you\u2026<\/p>\n How to tell if a guy likes you?<\/p>\n A good sign that a guy likes you is that he replies to your texts really quickly. (See: 15 Insights Reveal How Guys text When They Like You.<\/strong><\/a>)<\/p>\n I\u2019m not saying that he\u2019ll never <\/em><\/strong>be slow in responding to your texts, because that\u2019s possible, even if he likes you.<\/p>\n This is because if a guy has a life at all, then he won\u2019t live on his phone and he will have other things to attend to, like work, kids, family, or friends.<\/p>\n But you\u2019ll never have to guess whether he likes you over text because a guy who likes you will text back as quickly as he can, most<\/em><\/strong> of the time.<\/p>\n So pay attention to how he texts most<\/em><\/strong> of the time \u2013 it\u2019s what he does most of the time that counts.<\/p>\n If a guy likes you, he\u2019s going to show it through his body.<\/p>\n Many guys will try to hide these signs by trying to act cool. (An example of acting cool is putting their hands in their pockets to exercise more restraint and give off less signs he likes you).<\/p>\n But what\u2019s body language exactly?<\/em><\/p>\n Science of people<\/a> defines body language as:<\/p>\n \u201cBody language is the science of nonverbal signals such as gestures, facial expressions, and eye gaze that communicate a person\u2019s emotions and intentions\u2026..Unlike words, body language is often done subconsciously and constitutes a large part of our communication.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n The body language a man shows is important because they communicate what his mind and mouth may not feel ready to communicate yet.<\/p>\n Alternatively stated, he may not want to tell <\/em>you he likes you just yet, and he may feel too nervous to confess his feelings, but his body will find it much harder to hide his true feelings.<\/p>\n So what are some signs of open body language that show when a guy likes you?<\/p>\n SECRETS REVEALED\u2026 Discover how you too can use this little known \u201cDark Feminine Art\u201d to weed out the toxic men whilst cultivating real emotional attraction with high value high esteemed men. (CLICK HERE to enrol in this free class before it\u2019s gone.)<\/span><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n That is, his eyes gaze deeply into your eyes to feel your response.<\/strong><\/p>\n A man who likes you will definitely make eye contact with you, but it won\u2019t just<\/em><\/strong> be eye contact.<\/p>\n When a guy likes you, he will have eyes that search your eyes.\u00a0<\/p>\n What could he be looking for, you may ask?<\/p>\n He\u2019s looking for signs on how you really feel about what he did or said.\u00a0<\/p>\n He wants to know your soul. He wants you.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n In other words, his presence is all yours. No part of him is absent in that particular moment, whilst he\u2019s feeling you.<\/p>\n He wants to see how to navigate the waters of \u201cyou\u201d better.\u00a0<\/p>\n He wants to learn the quality of your emotions as well as your emotional responses to his words or behaviour.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n I am sure you\u2019ve heard that saying \u201cthe eyes are the window to the soul\u201d.<\/p>\n Well, a man who really likes you will utilise these windows actively and consistently.<\/p>\n See, a man who doesn\u2019t like you will not give you this kind of presence.<\/p>\n Disclaimer:<\/strong> admittedly, a guy who likes you may also<\/em><\/strong> have trouble holding your gaze due to nervousness!<\/p>\n Even so, as he gains his bearings around you, he will most definitely want <\/strong>to look into your eyes.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll see his eyes locking yours, as he will definitely want to learn about you.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s an excerpt from a poem written by a man named Peter Gizzi. You can see through his words how he wants to know this woman deeply:<\/p>\n It\u2019s great to be aware of the signs a guy likes you.\u00a0However\u2026<\/p>\n Here\u2019s a truth bomb:<\/strong><\/p>\n You won\u2019t truly know for yourself<\/em> if he likes you unless you stay attuned to the guy.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n What is attunement? It\u2019s the quality of being at one with. It\u2019s to bring into accord, harmony or sympathetic relationship.<\/p>\n When it comes to attuning yourself to a guy, what that means is that you get out of your own head.<\/p>\n Instead, you feel the reality of where he is at.<\/p>\n If you attune yourself to a guy, that will allow you to see for real if he actually likes you or if he\u2019s just stringing you along.\u00a0<\/p>\n If you want to understand more about how to get better at reading a guy, read my article on how to tell what a guy wants from you.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Here\u2019s a little explanation for how to attune yourself to a man\u2026\u00a0<\/p>\n You may care a lot about him, yes? However, the real questions are:<\/p>\n But does he care just as much about you?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n How MUCH does he actually care?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Does he only really care for the attention you give him?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n OR \u2013 does he care about your happiness, your feelings and your life as a whole?<\/p>\n Not only that, is he emotionally invested in your feelings? Does he empathise with and feel your pain or your ecstasy, as if it were his own?<\/p>\n An obvious sign that he likes you is that he truly cares about you. That is \u2013 your life, your struggles and your happiness!<\/p>\n To properly attune yourself to him, you have to first attune to yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n What that means is that you become more aware of how your body feels and what the deeper emotions you feel actually are.<\/p>\n See, when it comes to dating guys, there\u2019s no use pretending everything is ok if inside you actually feel hurt by him.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no use getting attached to the story you\u2019ve told yourself about him and what he could<\/em> be, in your head.\u00a0<\/p>\n That can lead you astray and get you attached to the \u201cidea\u201d of the relationship you have with him, rather than what\u2019s actually true about your relationship (or lack thereof).<\/p>\n To attune to yourself, you have to intimately understand how his actions make you feel, and in turn, how he responds to your feelings.<\/p>\n Of course, aside from that, you would need to understand your own ![\"how](\"https:\/\/images.surferseo.art\/c9233909-9586-4b60-9853-c17e10f11596.jpeg\")
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how to tell if a guy is interested in you or just being friendly?<\/h2>\n
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#1: He Has Intense Emotions When He Sees You Or Is Near You.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n#2: He Remembers Trivial Things You Said & Did<\/strong><\/h2>\n
He Would Remember These Trivial Things\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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#3: He Keeps Objects, Smells Or Signs Of You Close To Him.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#4: He Gets Jealous Of Other Guys In Your Life<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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#5: He Proudly Calls You His Girlfriend<\/strong><\/h2>\n
What Do Guys Do When They Really Don\u2019t Like You?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
#6: He Takes Extreme Care In Buying Gifts For You.<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n#7: He Texts You Back Very Quickly<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#8: He Exhibits Open Body Language<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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#9: His Eyes Gaze Deeply Into Your Eyes\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n
A Man Who Doesn\u2019t Like You Will Not Do THIS\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/figure>\n<\/div>\nThis Is How To Be An Attuned Woman<\/strong><\/h3>\n