Why do men ghost? Is it that<\/em> hard to be a decent human?<\/p>\n There has to be some actual reason why men ghost women, right?\u00a0Why would he disrespect you, or cause you that much pain, out of nowhere?<\/p>\n In this article, we answer the question of why guys ghost, as well as give your pain a purpose.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n And I say give your pain a purpose, because if this man or your interactions with him mattered to you at all, there\u2019s going to be some hurt, anger and disappointment for you to process through.<\/p>\n Even if it\u2019s not just anger about him \u2013 but moreso about pent up anger from past experiences of being abandoned by men.<\/strong><\/a> How could he even imply or boldly claim that he likes you, invite you out to dinner, and then completely disappear?<\/p>\n Some men are even more brazen than others. They\u2019ll say that they see some kind of future with you, only to turn around, disappear<\/strong><\/a> and never speak a word to you again.<\/p>\n I can remember the feeling of being ghosted. Not just by a guy, but by a friend.<\/p>\n I remember the hurt, the confusion and the anger I felt. Why couldn\u2019t they have just communicated something?\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Was it really that hard?<\/p>\n In one case, before I found my husband (when I was quite young), one guy ghosted me completely and then years later, he came back.<\/p>\n So, I get it. Being ghosted is rude and hurtful. But it\u2019s important to realize that ghosting someone is not just about men ghosting women.<\/p>\n Women ghost men, too.\u00a0<\/p>\n Friends ghost friends. Family can also ghost other family members.<\/p>\n Did you know that there\u2019s ONE specific emotional trigger within every masculine man that inspires him to want to emotionally commit to you? <\/p>\n CLICK HERE to LEARN the One Specific Emotional Trigger Within Every Masculine Man That Inspires Him to Want to Take Care of You, Worship You and Deeply Commit to You.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n I want to emphasise one thing quickly.<\/p>\n And that is that as a woman dating men, you naturally desire secure emotional attachment.\u00a0<\/p>\n Unless you\u2019re in a stage of life where you prefer to sleep with a man and then see him disappear without a trace. <\/p>\n (In my time coaching women, I\u2019ve seen a tiny percentage of women who claim to genuinely prefer this. Although I have my doubts when women say this, I still trust that there are women who are in a particular stage of life where this is preferred.)<\/p>\n Recommended reading: The 4 Types Of Attachment Styles & Which One Are You?<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n You may not be consciously aware of how much this desire to be attached to a man drives you when dating guys, but it\u2019s there.\u00a0<\/p>\n Some women prefer to push this desire down or pretend it\u2019s not there, as it makes them feel too vulnerable.<\/p>\n But if you are a naturally feminine soul, then even if you have an anxious attachment style<\/strong><\/a> or an anxious-avoidant attachment style, you still seek out that feeling of emotional bonding.<\/p>\n In other words, you want a serious commitment from a man.<\/p>\n That\u2019s your equilibrium most of the time. Especially with a man of value.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n This means that somewhere down the line, you will have an intense emotional response to being ghosted.\u00a0<\/p>\n This might be an intense anger response or a hurt response to a man ghosting you.\u00a0<\/p>\n I\u2019m bringing this up because it\u2019s important for you to be aware of your own equilibrium as a woman. Sometimes we prefer denial over feeling our pain, which I completely understand and respect.<\/p>\n But I also understand that pain needs to be processed, otherwise it trips us up later down the line.<\/p>\n So:<\/p>\n When you\u2019re aware of this, you can enter the dating market, or the online dating market in the future knowing that you have this bias.\u00a0<\/p>\n And when you know you have this bias, it becomes easier to take the right steps to protect yourself.<\/p>\n There Are\u00a07 Common Signs<\/strong>\u00a0That A Woman is Perceived as Low Value to All Men. Do You Know What They Are & How to\u00a0Avoid Them Like the Plague?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n CLICK here to discover the 7 common signs that a woman is perceived as low value in the eyes of men in this special report.<\/strong><\/a> (Why is this important? Because men and women perceive value very differently and you don\u2019t want to be making mistakes that would cause quality men to dismiss, abandon or<\/p>\n If you have a feminine core and are primarily identified with the feminine energy, then your \u2018home\u2019 will be in emotionally attaching. To almost everything.<\/p>\n As such, it\u2019s hard to let go.<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard to let go of many things in your life.<\/p>\n For men who have a masculine core, it\u2019s pretty easy to let go. Of many things.<\/p>\n The only scenario in which it\u2019s hard for him<\/em> to let go is if the man formed a deep emotional attachment to the woman.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n And to get a man to form that kind of attachment to you, you have to be his one and only woman<\/strong><\/a> \u2013 not the one of many! (and show up that way from the beginning).<\/p>\n Otherwise, he could shower you with attention and interest<\/strong><\/a>, make love to you and praise you until the cows come home. And still suddenly disappear.<\/p>\n All because he was never attached<\/strong><\/a> emotionally.<\/p>\n And more important than ever as a woman, try to remember that since you have this bias, it\u2019s important to make sure that you test <\/strong><\/a>men enough!\u00a0<\/p>\n We test men so that we don\u2019t get stuck investing in the kind of man who would just ghost you.<\/p>\n Aside from testing, it\u2019s important to remember that your feminine bias for early attachment isn\u2019t wrong<\/em>, it\u2019s normal.<\/p>\n It\u2019s just that most women use this early attachment in a bad way, and end up pushing guys away from them.<\/p>\n The key is to know how to use your feminine bias for early attachment to to create deeper attraction with men and inspire a deeper commitment from him without you looking needy and low value.\u00a0CLICK HERE to find out how to do that.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n (You may also be interested in these 15 signs you are the rebound girl.)<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n In online dating, there\u2019s no better test than high value banter. If a man doesn\u2019t respond to your high value banter, it\u2019s a red flag.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Even if you\u2019re dating in the flesh, bantering is a great skill to have that helps you test men. I wrote a guide on how to banter here.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n CLICK here to discover how online dating has completely changed and why you as a woman need to use \u201cHigh Value Banter\u201d<\/a><\/strong> in order to quickly weed out the wrong types of men online and create emotional attraction with the \u201cBEST of MEN\u201d!<\/p>\n (\u2026Even if no man has ever given you any love and all you\u2019ve encountered so far are pen pals, ghosts, booty calls, and incredible duds!)<\/p>\n (My man David runs this free class and I highly recommend you listen to it.)<\/p>\n Due to a woman\u2019s bias is to attach early, women often mistakenly assume that a guy must also share that same desire to attach and to seek out a serious relationship.<\/p>\n Sadly, that\u2019s not always the case.<\/p>\n Men don\u2019t have that same bias in dating.<\/p>\n That being said, men do<\/em> often come on strong, and this plays right into a woman\u2019s tendency to assume a man is seeking out the exact same thing as she is.<\/p>\n But them coming on strong doesn\u2019t always mean they want you,<\/em> your soul.<\/p>\n When men come on strong, they want either one of two things.<\/p>\n They want your for your body, or they genuinely want a serious relationship with you.<\/p>\n How do you tell the difference? You need to test. Here are 3 Reasons You Should Worry If He Comes On Strong.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Don\u2019t assume that men will look out for your heart the way you would. They\u2019ll only do that when they\u2019re in love<\/strong><\/a> with you, and invested in you.<\/p>\n Men can also keep you around<\/strong><\/a> for 10 hours, 10 days, or 10 years, and never have that feeling of emotional attachment to you!\u00a0<\/p>\n Revealed: 8 Ultimate Signs He Is Emotionally Attached To You.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n If you met this man who ghosted you online<\/em>, then you really need to be aware that unless you approach the online dating game with the right strategy, you will almost always end up getting ghosted by men online.<\/p>\n Dating apps are highly valuable to you as a woman.<\/strong><\/a> They give you access to tonnes of options that you wouldn\u2019t have had many years ago. But this style of is not to be taken lightly.<\/p>\n It is to be taken seriously if you don\u2019t want to get your heart broken or damage your emotional health.<\/p>\n You cannot just float along, hoping that through the graveyard that is most online conversations, you will somehow inspire a guy to connect emotionally with you.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t have the right mindset and approach to online dating, you will pay dearly with your sanity, your innocence and <\/strong>your trust in the world.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Don\u2019t let online dating leave you burned and jaded! You\u2019re a woman and your heart is worth more than that.<\/p>\n The only way to do online dating right is to go into it with the right mindset:<\/p>\n The mindset to eliminate the men who aren\u2019t interested in connecting with you, and to quickly form a connection<\/strong><\/a> with the men who want <\/strong>to find you and connect with you!\u00a0<\/p>\n The way to do that is with high value banter<\/strong><\/a>. High value banter weeds out the men who won\u2019t be interested in connecting with you.<\/p>\n Why?<\/p>\n Because the playfulness of banter introduces spontaneity into your interactions, requiring him to care to connect with you in order to engage in the banter.<\/p>\n And this brings the truth of a man\u2019s intent to the surface quickly.<\/p>\n Now let\u2019s talk about what ghosting someone actually means\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Ghosting is different to pulling away.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Ghosting someone is the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.<\/p>\n My husband, who has written an even better article on the 3 Obvious Reasons Why Men Ghost Women<\/strong><\/a>, defined ghosting as:<\/p>\n \u201cThe act of not contacting you, even though you know for certain they\u2019ve had plenty of opportunities to do so.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Here\u2019s a great video by my incredible husband that explains the 3 Obvious Reasons Why Guys Ghost Women Online\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n \n
<\/a>I mean, how can a man show so much interest in you, and then go ghost?\u00a0<\/p>\nKey Takeaways<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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Your Feminine Bias Of Attaching Emotionally\u2026.Early<\/strong><\/h3>\n
How Do You Test A Man?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Why Men Ghost Women: Your Bias Versus HIS Bias In Dating\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\nUnless You Do This, You Will ALWAYS Get Ghosted Online!<\/strong><\/h3>\n
What Does Ghosting Someone Mean?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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