5 Reasons Your Church Needs to Change Your Single Moms’ Ministry Plan<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n With approximately 22\u00a0million single parents in the United States today raising approximately 25\u00a0million children, the numbers cannot be ignored. Churches shouldn\u2019t be ignoring ministries plans to these families either. Over the last 50 years, the number of single parent-led families has more than doubled and the challenges these families face can seem insurmountable.\u00a0 While this demographic hosts a wide range of stories, socio-economic statuses, religious backgrounds, educational levels, and geographic locations, requiring slightly nuanced ministry changes, one thing is for certain.\u00a0 Churches need to be intentional and creative about how to reach single moms and children in their communities in meaningful and long-term ways.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Over the last 10 years, we have seen a dramatic increase in single parent family ministries, single mom outreach plans, fatherless mentoring projects, and similar such services in churches. Sitting at the helm of a ministry that exists to see that no single mom walks alone, that fact is exciting! What\u2019s more exciting is thinking of all the single mothers and children who are impacted by these efforts.\u00a0 But there are some key considerations on how to do effective single moms\u2019 ministry, pitfalls to avoid, and creative ways to give your ministry a new look that churches should be considering, particularly in a post-pandemic era, where many\u00a0churches are having to strategize new formats anyway.\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Here are 5 reasons your church needs to change your single moms\u2019 ministry plan for long-term, effective impact:\u00a0<\/p>\n 1. Your church doesn\u2019t currently have a plan.\u00a0<\/em>Some churches have not yet embarked on a specific and intentional single moms\u2019 ministry plan. Maybe you\u2019ve done a one-time event every now and again. Perhaps you think that the singles\u2019 ministry, 12-week parenting class, or divorce recovery ministry at your church encompasses these families. Maybe you are thinking that these families are acclimating into another component of church life. Maybe you\u2019ve even thought,\u00a0Well, we really don’t have any single moms in our church, so is there a real need<\/em>? While it is true that singles\u2019 ministry, parenting classes and one-time outreaches do indeed have single mothers in attendance, we have found that the overwhelming majority of single moms do not plant in those ministries long-term.\u00a0 They visit, but they are looking for something\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n 2. Your ministry plan only includes one-time outreaches.\u00a0<\/em>While one-time outreaches have been part of many churches\u2019 ministry plan through the years, they are simply not enough. The annual Christmas party, oil change, Mother\u2019s Day Tea, or clothing drive is not going to be enough to make meaningful change. Now, don\u2019t get me wrong. Something is better than nothing and these outreaches serve a powerful purpose of meeting needs! However, churches must think beyond the one-time conferences and outreaches and have both one-time touches and long-term discipleship<\/a> plans. This includes launching a new single moms\u2019 Bible study, connect group, ministry, or formal gathering place for these moms to regularly connect with others who are in their life journey.\u00a0 For more information on launching a group in your church, visit\u00a0HERE<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n 3. The ministry has grown stagnant.\u00a0<\/em>Sometimes our ministries just need a facelift, a way to get the creative juices flowing and look at new ways to achieve the mission.\u00a0 Even the most effective ministry plan has a shelf life.\u00a0 In some cases, the group may need a new leader.\u00a0 Sometimes, a fresh advertising approach will do the trick. Still other times it will require polling single mom attendees to see what works and what doesn\u2019t in the current ministry. Wherever you land, make no mistake that growth can be uncomfortable and change will likely be required to keep the ministry fresh.\u00a0 (Note: What keeps the ministry the most alive is the presence of the Holy Spirit! Having praying leaders and volunteers who can seek God\u2019s face for the ministry is truly what transforms lives!)\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n 4. Your church isn\u2019t considering the unchurched single mom.<\/em>\u202fMany churches cater to the single moms who are currently in the walls of the church, the ones who attend every Sunday, the ones who are active members of the body.\u00a0 And what special and valuable women they are! But in order to reach the lost and hurting, churches most also be thinking about the single moms who have not yet broached the doors of the church.\u00a0 What day of the week might they want Bible study? What time of the day? Should we offer free childcare and a meal? Should be intentional with our curriculum, so that even women who weren\u2019t raised in the church can come and grow?\u00a0 There is much to be considered in the implementation of a single moms\u2019 ministry plan.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n 5. Your single moms\u2019 ministry won\u2019t grow<\/em>. Well, you answered the call, held the event, launched the Bible study, and stayed the course, and….only 2 women show up.\u00a0 It can seem really hard, when you have recognized a substantial need in your community for this type of ministry, prayed, planned, and prepared, and then attendance numbers don\u2019t seem to reflect the hard work and effort that has been put in. First, be encouraged.\u00a0 If two women come to know Jesus in an intimate way and receive hope through your efforts, then it\u2019s worth it. Next, know that there is help available.\u00a0 I began my single moms\u2019 ministry journey 14 years ago and during that time, there was very little, if anything, on the market to train ministry leaders on how to serve single moms\u2019 effectively. Today, many ministries have birthed to do just that! The Life of a Single Mom Ministries is one such ministry that is committed to help churches analyze their ministry plan and determine why a group may not be growing and ways to fix the problem.\u00a0 For more information on why your group isn\u2019t growing, visit\u00a0HERE<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n Jennifer Maggio is a national voice for single mothers and hurting women. Her personal story has been featured in hundreds of media venues including The New York Times, Daystar Television,\u00a0The\u00a0700 Club, and many others. She is CEO\/Founder of The Life of a Single Mom Ministries, a national nonprofit that works with churches to develop single mom\u2019s programs and ministries, totaling over 1600 groups currently.<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n The Life of a Single Mom has served over 1,000,000\u00a0single mothers over the last decade and counting.\u00a0 Maggio is an author of several books, including The Church and the Single Mom. For more information, visit\u00a0<\/em>www.jennifermaggio.com<\/em><\/a>.<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n<\/picture>\u00a0<\/p>\n
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