{"id":1983,"date":"2023-06-07T19:13:06","date_gmt":"2023-06-07T13:43:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/perthescortsdirectory.com.au\/blog\/top-giant-red-flags-in-men-to-never-ignore-the-feminine-woman-dating-love-relationship-advice-for-women\/"},"modified":"2023-06-07T19:13:06","modified_gmt":"2023-06-07T13:43:06","slug":"top-giant-red-flags-in-men-to-never-ignore-the-feminine-woman-dating-love-relationship-advice-for-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perthescortsdirectory.com.au\/blog\/top-giant-red-flags-in-men-to-never-ignore-the-feminine-woman-dating-love-relationship-advice-for-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Top GIANT Red Flags in Men To NEVER Ignore \u2013 The Feminine Woman \u2013 Dating, Love &#038; Relationship Advice for Women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<p>So you\u2019re looking for the red flags in men. I can help you with that.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing to know is that red flags need to be considered within the right context.<\/p>\n<p>There are two contexts that are important here:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>The context of dating (including online dating red flags); and<\/li>\n<li>The context of an established relationship<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I\u2019m going to give you the top 3 biggest <strong><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ncrw.org\/red-flags-in-men\/\">red flags in men<\/a><\/strong> when dating that you should be wary of.<\/p>\n<p>These three encompass everything toxic, dangerous and low value about men you\u2019ve just started to get to know (or date).<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve boiled these three down to what\u2019s most important. Everything else that\u2019s bad about modern dating comes from these three red flags.<\/p>\n<p>If you ignore these red flags, you\u2019ll see your dating life downward spiral fast.<\/p>\n<p>After these, I\u2019ll go through the most important <strong>red flags in a relationship with a man.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/quiz-commitment-friendly-man\/\"><strong>QUIZ TIME: Is your man serious about committing to you? CLICK HERE to find out with this specially crafted quiz!<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/flag.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/flag-1024x682.jpeg\" alt=\"red flags in men dating\" class=\"wp-image-17051\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/flag-1024x682.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/flag-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/flag-768x511.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/flag.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Please%E2%80%A6_Be_Smart_About_Dating%E2%80%A6\"\/><strong>Please\u2026 Be Smart About Dating\u2026<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>As a woman dating in this sometimes confusing and superficial era, you really have to be smart in the way you go about dating.<\/p>\n<p>And you have to be particularly smart when online dating, because you are <strong>getting to know someone through a screen initially.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As such, you don\u2019t get to witness all the little nuances in body language, speech and eye movement that you may observe when first meeting someone in person.<\/p>\n<p>Dating apps are a haven for scammers, narcissists, players and yes, adulterous married men too.<\/p>\n<p>However, we can\u2019t let this fact take away from all<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/10-telltale-signs-he-is-highly-evolved-masculine-alpha-male\/\"> <strong>the truly high value men<\/strong><\/a>, the great men online who are really sitting there waiting to get to know you.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, they exist. And I\u2019ll show you exactly how to<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/emotional-connection-with-a-man\/\"> <strong>connect<\/strong><\/a> to the souls of these truly great men later on in this article.<\/p>\n<p>But first, we have to get really clear on the actual meaning of a red flag. Definitions might seem tiresome, but they are important for:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Keeping ideas and solutions clear<\/li>\n<li>And so that you (we) don\u2019t veer off track<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Red_Flag_Meaning\"\/><strong>Red Flag Meaning<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/red-flag\">Merriam Webster<\/a> defines a red flag as:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>A warning signal or sign.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>And:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>Something that indicates or draws attention to a problem, danger, or irregularity.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Basically, a red flag is something that should make you pay attention and show concern towards.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t gloss over the most important red flags in men, as you\u2019ll pay for it later.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Top_3_Red_Flags_In_Men_Dating_Specific\"\/><strong>The Top 3 Red Flags In Men, Dating Specific<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s discuss the three biggest red flags now.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re doing online dating, my husband also has a great article on this topic. Here\u2019s the<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/commitmenttriggers.com\/the-1-giant-red-flag-all-women-routinely-fall-for-in-online-dating\/\"> <strong>1 GIANT Red Flag that All Women Routinely Fall For in Online Dating.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>And here\u2019s a video I made on the 3 Biggest Red Flags in Guys.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed aligncenter is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Dating Red Flags: The 3 You Must Avoid When Dating Someone New\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/H7gLD-M19ls?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_He%E2%80%99s_Not_Attuned_To_You\"\/><strong>#1: He\u2019s Not Attuned To You.<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>If you already understand the concept of attunement, you\u2019ll understand the value of attunement when dating men.<\/p>\n<p>If you are not<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/attune\"> <strong>attuned<\/strong><\/a> to a man, <strong>or he is not attuned to you,<\/strong> there will be trouble in your future.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The reason for this is that when there\u2019s no attunement:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>There\u2019s no hope for<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/5-unusual-signs-he-madly-in-love\/\"> <strong>falling in love<\/strong><\/a>, for either of you<\/li>\n<li>There\u2019s definitely no relationship on the horizon. You can count on that; and<\/li>\n<li>A lack of attunement is much more likely to lead to a transactional relationship, which will deplete you whilst also making you feel used and unloved<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>The definition of attunement is:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>To bring into harmony.<\/p>\n<p>In all healthy relationships, there is plenty of attunement.<\/p>\n<p>For two people to form a <strong>genuine<\/strong> connection and fall in love, there has to be attunement.<\/p>\n<p>Think of attunement like this. It is the act (and art) of responding to someone and being on the same page as them.<\/p>\n<p>Kind of like meeting them where they are at.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Where there\u2019s attunement, the following toxic behaviors are unlikely to be present:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Controlling behavior<\/li>\n<li>Abusive behavior<\/li>\n<li>And gaslighting<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_A_Man_To_Fall_In_Love_With_You_THIS_Ingredient_Must_Be_Present%E2%80%A6\"\/><strong>For A Man To Fall In Love With You, THIS Ingredient Must Be Present\u2026<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>When two people are in love, they attune to each other naturally, and the roles are switched very naturally too.<\/p>\n<p>So, you do or say something. He responds with laughter, compassion or his presence in some way.<\/p>\n<p>He does or says something, and you respond with laughter, compassion or presence in some way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The more a man is only dating <\/strong><strong><em>for himself <\/em><\/strong><strong>and what he can get out of the situation, the less responsive and attuned he will be to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are you starting to see why a lack of attunement is one of the biggest red flags in guys?<\/p>\n<p>The less a man responds to you and the less you respond to him, the more the relationship breaks down.<\/p>\n<p>A <strong>narcissistic or abusive<\/strong> man won\u2019t have the capacity to be attuned to you and meet you where you are at.<\/p>\n<p>Because they are only looking to take (or milk you of what you\u2019re willing to give) for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>A scammer would also not be able to be attuned to you.<\/p>\n<p>A player, a man who is only there looking for the sex he can get, will not be attuned to you.<\/p>\n<p>A man with crippling<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/commitmenttriggers.com\/5-telltale-signs-he-has-crippling-low-self-esteem\/\"><strong> low self esteem<\/strong><\/a> would not be able to be attuned to you, even if he tries.<\/p>\n<p>Because he simply won\u2019t be able to offer his presence, or his responsiveness.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Attunement should be present in all healthy relationships.<\/p>\n<p>All<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/5-advanced-ways-close-relationships-envy\/\"> <strong>enviable relationships<\/strong><\/a> have the critical ingredient of attunement.<\/p>\n<p>The more attunement there is, the stronger the relationship and the more trust there will be between the two souls in that relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Men_Who_Want_To_CONNECT_With_You_Will_Prioritise_Attunement\"\/><strong>Men Who Want To CONNECT With You Will Prioritise Attunement<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>A man who is genuine in wanting to actually connect with you, and get to know you, will prioritise attuning himself to you naturally.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This means he will respond to your jokes, your chatter, your questions and your energy at least 70% of the time.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t just ignore you or give you flat energy.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>By flat energy, I mean he doesn\u2019t seem to value the conversation enough to keep it going.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He lets the conversation momentum die repeatedly over time.<\/strong> In other words, talking to him is like beating a dead horse.<\/p>\n<p>Now, of course, all conversations lose momentum. We\u2019re adults here. We have things to do. We have lives to live and responsibilities to attend to.<\/p>\n<p>This is why I said he will respond to you at least 70% of the time.<\/p>\n<p>The other times, he may be at work, exhausted, running out of energy or words, and maybe he just plain <strong>does not get your communication.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re communicating with a guy but feeling unsure about his intentions,<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/questions-know-his-intentions\/\"> <strong>here are 5 revealing questions you can ask him to find out.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I also recommend you read my article on<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/how-to-tell-what-a-guy-wants-from-you\/\"> <strong>how to tell what a guy wants from you.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_Lack_Of_Attunement_Is_A_Huge_Red_Flag_In_Online_Dating\"\/><strong>A Lack Of Attunement Is A Huge Red Flag In Online Dating<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Now, <strong>this particular red flag of lack of attunement applies very much in online dating.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re serious about online dating successfully, then you should be<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/how-to-test-him\/\"> <strong>testing<\/strong><\/a> <strong>for attunement <\/strong>in each and every man that you are interested in having a conversation with.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t test, you can end up in the wrong kinds of<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/situationship-meaning-signs\/\"> <strong>situationships<\/strong><\/a> with men.<\/p>\n<p>How do you test? By using<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.highvaluebanter.com\/\"> <strong>high value banter.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You initiate a conversation with a man that you are interested in using playful, high value banter. (Here\u2019s<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/how-to-banter\/\"> <strong>an article<\/strong><\/a> on what banter is and how to get good at it.)<\/p>\n<p>Why does banter help test men?<\/p>\n<p>Because it introduces a sense of spontaneity into the interactions, making it very difficult for players and narcissists to keep up their facade.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, narcissists and controlling men are usually revealed very quickly through high value banter, because they cannot handle the spontaneity.<\/p>\n<p>Now:<\/p>\n<p>This banter method was created specifically for women to use online to weed out the low value men and connect with the high value men!<\/p>\n<p>And if you visit the high value banter page, you\u2019ll see that so many women have had success with using it.<\/p>\n<p>They are getting asked out on dates super fast and the dates are with <em>high value men,<\/em> not duds.<\/p>\n<p>This is how effective high value banter is at eliminating the nasties online. We\u2019ve done many case studies with women who have used it with great success.<\/p>\n<p>You should check one out, as these were were exactly where you are once:<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/shenwademedia.com\/optin\/case-study-kristin\"><strong>Click here to watch an amazing case study with Kristin and Learn how Kristin went from being completely burnt out with online dating, sick of getting ghosted &amp; exhausted from giving her heart and soul with nothing in return\u2026<\/strong><\/a> to having high value men begging for her attention &amp; having the most \u201celectric\u201d date of her entire life. (\u2026All by changing one simple thing.)<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/redflag.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"728\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/redflag-1024x728.jpg\" alt=\"red flags in men dating\" class=\"wp-image-23350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/redflag-1024x728.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/redflag-300x213.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/redflag-768x546.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/redflag.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_He_Puts_No_Effort_Into_His_Online_Dating_Bio_Or_In_Talking_To_You\"\/><strong>#2: He Puts No Effort Into His Online Dating Bio Or In Talking To You<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>If a man doesn\u2019t put any effort into the most basic thing \u2013 his online dating profile or bio \u2013 then he is not serious about connecting with you.<\/p>\n<p>Nor is he serious about the process of online dating.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Not putting effort into writing anything compelling in his dating profile bio <strong>is evidently an online dating red flag.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because if he had the intent to connect as a human, he\u2019d write something that would allow women to connect to him or learn more about him.<\/p>\n<p>Also, if you find that he puts zero effort into the conversation with you, then conclude that he isn\u2019t actually there to converse.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He isn\u2019t there to connect, which is one of the warning signs that a man is there to take from you, not connect with you.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s a warning sign of bad intentions, too\u2026<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What%E2%80%99s_The_Intention_Of_Men_Who_Don%E2%80%99t_Put_Effort_Into_Their_Dating_Profile\"\/><strong>What\u2019s The Intention Of Men Who Don\u2019t Put Effort Into Their Dating Profile?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Why would a man try to online date without putting any effort into his online dating profile and bio?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Because he\u2019s just there to look at (gawk at) profiles<\/li>\n<li>To pick up easy women, or<\/li>\n<li>Just for the excitement of having random conversations with strangers (that may stroke his ego)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Remember: you\u2019re not doing online dating to just pass the time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re doing it to be able to connect with someone<\/strong>, in the hope that it will lead to something more. Ie: a healthy relationship!<\/p>\n<p>So the most basic requirement for you as a woman, would be that the man is willing to connect on some level with you, true?<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/shenwademedia.com\/f\/dark-art\/class\/\"><strong>CLICK here to discover how online dating has completely changed and why you as a woman need to use \u201cHigh Value Banter\u201d<\/strong><\/a> in order to quickly weed out the wrong types of men online and create emotional attraction with the \u201cBEST of MEN\u201d!<\/p>\n<p>(\u2026Even if no man has ever given you any love and all you\u2019ve encountered so far are pen pals, ghosts, booty calls, and duds!)<\/p>\n<p>My man David runs this free class and I highly recommend you listen to it.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_He_Panders_To_Women%E2%80%99s_Need_For_A_Relationship_Commitment\"\/><strong>#3: He Panders To Women\u2019s Need For A Relationship &amp; Commitment.<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>This can also be known as love bombing, and <strong>this red flag goes for in person dating as well as online dating.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Love bombing entails him:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Making too many promises; and<\/li>\n<li>Giving you far more attention, praise, and gifts than are normally appropriate in the early stages of dating<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Love bombing or pandering to your need for commitment also involves him <em>talking <\/em>a lot about commitment.<\/p>\n<p>If a man talks about a commitment very early on in the dating process, that\u2019s a red flag.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Simple, but useful fact: <strong>NO man is ready for commitment in the first conversation online, or even in the first few weeks of meeting you.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>When men pander to your need for a commitment or marriage too early, it\u2019s a strategy that some men use in order to scam you.<\/p>\n<p>They may scam you in order to get money from you, to get into your pants, or fast track his way to sex with you.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s an example. A lady posted this in my<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/highvaluefemininewomen\/\"> <strong>facebook group.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/image-1.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"540\" height=\"960\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/image-1.png\" alt=\"Red flags in men\" class=\"wp-image-23342\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/image-1.png 540w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/image-1-169x300.png 169w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>And this is what she had to say about this text she received:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>\u201cI just started talking to this guy a few days ago and the texts are non stop. I suggested we have a picnic for our first date at a nearby lake (it is a very populated lake) and this is his response. I feel overwhelmed\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>See the keywords in his first texts \u201cI would actually enjoy that <strong><em>especially with you.<\/em><\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Especially with you? They just started talking! This kind of language plays to a woman\u2019s need for exclusivity (ie: signals of commitment) far too early.<\/p>\n<p>And another one:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>\u201cYou know if you keep thinking of these kind of things to do together I might fall head-over-heels for you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Fall <strong>\u201chead over heels?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Really, now? Come on.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Men_Who_Fake_Early_Attachment_Romance%E2%80%A6\"\/><strong>Men Who Fake Early Attachment &amp; Romance\u2026<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>No man falls head over heels in love with a woman just for suggesting special things to do (before they have even met).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This kind of early attachment in relation to suggestions for sweet or romantic dates tends to be a bias that women have, <strong>not<\/strong><strong><em> <\/em><\/strong>men!<\/p>\n<p>And the final kicker:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><em>\u201cI debated (read: deleted) my account because I want to give you a 150% of my attention\u2026\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>This is all too much, too soon.<\/p>\n<p>Too much <strong>\u201cexclusivity signaling\u201d<\/strong> is what I would like to call it. He\u2019s sending signals that they can be exclusive, way before he should.<\/p>\n<p>Try to remember that<strong> it is simply not possible to skip over all the natural steps and milestones in dating\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(By the way, if you find yourself attaching to a man too early like many other women do, I recommend you<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/shenwademedia.com\/offer\/hva\/\"> <strong>watch this free video my husband and I made (It will help you say goodbye to the heartbreaking reality of you being attached to a man without him being attached to you!)<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Now that we\u2019ve covered the most important red flags in men (dating specific), we\u2019ll get into the biggest red flags in a relationship with a man.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Red_flags_In_A_Relationship_With_A_Man\"\/><strong>7 Red flags In A Relationship With A Man<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Gaslighting\"\/><strong>#1: Gaslighting<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Gaslighting is the universal tool of all controlling people, man or woman.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/gaslighting-in-relationships\/\"><strong>MORE: Gaslighting In A Relationship: 10 Examples And How To Stop It.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The thing to know about gaslighting is that it\u2019s something that\u2019s hard to escape. Especially when you\u2019ve gotten stuck in a relationship with a narcissistic gaslighter.<\/p>\n<p>What are signs of gaslighting?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Telling you didn\u2019t see or hear something when you did<\/li>\n<li>Trying to make you feel like you don\u2019t know anything (or are incapable of knowing or learning anything)<\/li>\n<li>He minimizes your feelings<\/li>\n<li>He tells you he did something horrible \u201cfor your own good\u201d (<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ncrw.org\/narcissistic-gaslighting\/\"><strong>More: 12 Narcissistic Gaslighting Examples &amp; How to Stop It.<\/strong><\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Intentionally sending mixed signals<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_He_Has_Crippling_Low_Self_Esteem\"\/><strong>#2: He Has Crippling Low Self Esteem<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Low self esteem is arguably a yellow flag, but it\u2019s usually a silent killer of relationships, and that\u2019s why I\u2019ve included it as a red flag.<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/commitmenttriggers.com\/5-telltale-signs-he-has-crippling-low-self-esteem\/\"> <\/a><\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/commitmenttriggers.com\/5-telltale-signs-he-has-crippling-low-self-esteem\/\"><strong>Here are the 5 crippling signs he has crippling low self esteem.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The reason I say it\u2019s a silent killer of relationships is that low self esteem comes out in toxic ways that are likely to affect you, as his partner.<\/p>\n<p>Low self esteem causes men to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Not fully appreciate a woman\u2019s<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/commitmenttriggers.com\/what-exactly-is-feminine-radiance\/\"> <strong>feminine radiance<\/strong><\/a><strong> (therefore making you feel less radiant, confident and loved)<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Be sexually controlling and coercive; and<\/li>\n<li>Keep you small in order to limit your options and keep you chained to him<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>By the way, would you like to work out how naturally feminine you are at your core, you can do so with our quick and easy quiz:<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/quiz-feminine-energy\"> <strong>QUIZ TIME: Are you truly living in your feminine energy? CLICK HERE to find out with my specially crafted 9 Question Quiz!<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_He_Uses_Money_As_A_Tool_To_Control_You\"\/><strong>#3: He Uses Money As A Tool To Control You<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>This is a form of gaslighting of course, but it\u2019s also a power grab.<\/p>\n<p>If your man works but you don\u2019t, or if he makes more money than you do, and he won\u2019t let you forget it, there\u2019s a reason for that.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s to keep you down, and to ensure that you don\u2019t become any more capable or any more free in your life than he feels comfortable with.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_He%E2%80%99s_Image_Focused_Not_Relationship_Focused\"\/><strong>#4: He\u2019s Image Focused, Not Relationship Focused<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Yeah, there\u2019s nothing good about an image focused man. Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because his image is never about you, and it\u2019s never about the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about minimizing his own vulnerability to the world, and it\u2019s about appearing as high status as possible (even when he\u2019s not at all).<\/p>\n<p>Being focused on his image invariably breaks down the trust in your relationship because it creates disconnection.<\/p>\n<p>Signs he\u2019s image focused?<\/p>\n<p>When he tries to control how you look, or tries to change your weight, makeup or style.<\/p>\n<p>When he gets angry over you downgrading his image in some way.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_He_Hits_You\"\/><strong>#5: He Hits You<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>People rarely ever do anything once.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, we all make mistakes in relationships.<\/p>\n<p>But\u2026<\/p>\n<p>He hit you.<\/p>\n<p>So, that means it\u2019s within the realm of acceptable in his mind.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s never acceptable. Except when and if you\u2019re attacking and hurting him physically.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect anyone (even a bigger, stronger man) not to fight back if you\u2019re hurting them.<\/p>\n<p>For more red flags in a relationship with a man,<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/10-seemingly-harmless-signs-toxic-relationship\/\"> <strong>see my article on The 10 Seemingly Harmless Signs Of A Toxic Relationship.<\/strong><strong> <\/strong><\/a><strong>`<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_To_Approach_Red_Flags_In_A_Guy\"\/><strong>How To Approach Red Flags In A Guy<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Call_Them_For_What_They_Are\"\/><strong>#1: Call Them For What They Are<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>One of the hardest things to do when you like someone, find them attractive or want to explore a relationship with them, is calling their red flags for what they are.<\/p>\n<p>To do this you have to be brave, and you have to be willing to tel yourself (and others) the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Not half truths. Not maybes.<\/p>\n<p>But truths.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s unattuned to you and doesn\u2019t want to connect, tell yourself exactly that. announce it to the world \u2013 make it official, so that you can\u2019t run away from it.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve done case studies on women who have a history of attracting abusive men and with banter, they learned how to quickly weed these guys out in the future.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You should check them out sometime\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/shenwademedia.com\/optin\/case-study-alison\"><strong>CLICK to Discover how Alison ended her cycle of abusive relationships by learning to quickly weed out the \u201cwrong types of men\u201d,<\/strong><\/a><strong> inspiring deep devotion from her chosen man and passing the hardest test of them all \u2013 an accidental pregnancy after a month of dating!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3831887.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"715\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3831887-1024x715.jpg\" alt=\"Red flags in a relationship with a man\" class=\"wp-image-23349\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3831887-1024x715.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3831887-300x209.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3831887-768x536.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3831887.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Build_Courage_So_You_Can_Walk_Away_At_Anytime\"\/><strong>#2: Build Courage So You Can Walk Away At Anytime<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Once you\u2019ve told yourself the truth about his behavior, you have to develop courage within yourself.<\/p>\n<p>This is challenging to do, but just because it\u2019s challenging, doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not possible.<\/p>\n<p>If you stay with a toxic guy, you\u2019ll be making yourself smaller and weaker every day.<\/p>\n<p>So answer a couple of questions for yourself:<\/p>\n<p>How much do you value your long term mental health and happiness, over the short term comfort of having a (toxic) someone?<\/p>\n<p>How much do you respect your own emotions and what they\u2019re trying to tell you about him?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Know_The_Price_Of_Staying\"\/><strong>#3: Know The Price Of Staying<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Ignoring red flags has grave consequences.<\/p>\n<p>Not enough women think about this. Women in abusive relationships sometimes don\u2019t appreciate the price of staying.<\/p>\n<p>Even if leaving a toxic relationship means losing money or resources, what\u2019s the price of that in the long term?<\/p>\n<p>The toll everything takes on your emotional and physical health is not something you fully notice until he\u2019s finally out of your life \u2013 and maybe by then it\u2019ll be too late.<\/p>\n<p>So respect your own time, energy and emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Know the price of staying.<\/p>\n<p>Also remember that your past relationships affect your future relationships.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much you resist that truth, the damage being done today is twice the damage you\u2019re copping tomorrow, and I mean in terms of your ability to trust again and to have a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Think about that for a second.<\/p>\n<p>Now that we\u2019ve covered the most important aspects of red flags in men, I\u2019m going to touch on something that I believe is very important in terms of dating red flags.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to notice the red flags early when dating guys, sure.<\/p>\n<p>But on the flipside, you also have to know that there\u2019s this culture that developed among single women of doing it too much. I see it in our facebook group all the time.<\/p>\n<p>You should of course be vigilant, but a lot of women are over-vigilant, and this hampers their natural sensitivity.<\/p>\n<p>Let me explain.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Beware_Too_Much_%E2%80%9CSearching%E2%80%9D_For_Red_Flags_Can_Backfire_On_You\"\/><strong>Beware: Too Much \u201cSearching\u201d For Red Flags Can Backfire On You<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>You see, I don\u2019t always like the concept of \u201csearching\u201d for red flags.<\/p>\n<p>Because this can cause you to just be on guard too much, and responding in fear.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, I understand that if you\u2019ve been in an abusive relationship, you may naturally be more skeptical, on guard and ready to run.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel a bit scared and nervous to get involved with a narcissist yet again, here\u2019s how I can help.<\/p>\n<p>I have an article on \u201cGaslighting In Relationships: Examples Signs &amp; Cure\u201d<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/gaslighting-in-relationships\/\"> <strong>right here.<\/strong><strong><br \/><\/strong><strong><br \/><\/strong><\/a>I also have an article on toxic relationships signs<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/10-seemingly-harmless-signs-toxic-relationship\/\"> <strong>here.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>These two articles should help you heal, and understand further what to look out for when dating a new person.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Many_Red_Flags_Can_Be_A_Grey_Area\"\/><strong>Why Many Red Flags Can Be A Grey Area<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>A man could harbour a few of the traditional or \u201ccommonly understood\u201d red flags in his personality.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, he could still actually be an upstanding and high value man.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Is that hard to understand? I know, it sounds weird. But it will make sense eventually.<\/p>\n<p>The fact is that women with dating or relationship anxiety take the task of searching for red flags too far.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you can take it too far. <strong><em>When you\u2019re not an attuned woman.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>See, if you\u2019re \u201csearching\u201d for red flags out of fear and a lack of confidence in your own ability to<em> <\/em><strong>feel a man\u2019s intent,<\/strong> you run the risk of mislabelling a guy.<\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you that according to SOME of the mainstream advice about what red flags look like, my husband as well as myself <strong>both<\/strong><em> <\/em>exhibited red flags at the beginning of our relationship.<em> <\/em><strong>Yes, both of us!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But we are in a<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/10-ultimate-signs-healthy-relationship\/\"> <strong>healthy, long term marriage<\/strong><\/a> with 3 children.<\/p>\n<p>This is a man who has never laid a hand on me, except when he is looking out for my physical, emotional and psychological safety.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This is a man who, when I said I loved eating figs, proceeded to cultivate 33 fig trees for me in our home.<\/p>\n<p>The same man who has never let me down when I needed him, even when it wasn\u2019t convenient for him.<\/p>\n<p>So, <strong>how does that work?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>How can a man be a good man yet still seem to have some red flags in his personality?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Some_Seemingly_Kind_Generous_Actions_Can_Carry_Ill_Intent%E2%80%A6\"\/><strong>Some Seemingly Kind &amp; Generous Actions Can Carry Ill Intent\u2026<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>It works like this.<\/p>\n<p>When we place too much weight on certain red flags, we often look for their opposite, which can also turn out to be severely toxic.<\/p>\n<p>You see, <strong>even the most seemingly kind or generous actions can carry ill intent.<\/strong><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example: a toxic, narcissistic man can pay for an expensive dinner for you, and make you feel like he is the ultimate gentleman and you are a princess.<\/p>\n<p>Only, you find out that he was doing it to manipulate you into feeling obligated to sex.<\/p>\n<p>Contrast this with the fact that some of the most seemingly annoying or anger inducing actions can have a loving, giving intent.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For example, you may have a hang up about your enormous left big toe.<\/p>\n<p>And a man playfully brings up the topic of your enormous left big toe, telling you that it is the most diabolical thing he\u2019s ever seen.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s triggering your fears, and perhaps also annoying you. But what he intends to do is actually connect with you.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Connect with you, how?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Well, he\u2019s trying to push through your boundaries with love to touch your soul.<\/p>\n<p>He is poking fun at you in order to desensitise you to your perceived \u201cdeformity\u201d.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s interesting, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>Often, if someone cares about you, they\u2019ll be willing to break the rules just to do the right thing.<\/p>\n<p>Not the accepted thing. The <em>right <\/em>thing.<\/p>\n<p>And they do the right thing so that they can contribute to someone and change their life, or <strong>to make a deeper connection.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This is why relying on, and searching for lots of dating red flags <strong>can <\/strong>sometimes mislead you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make it an obsession.<\/p>\n<p>This is also why I don\u2019t like having a tonne of dating red flags to look out for. We don\u2019t need 33 red flags in men in order to stay safe.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We want to be aware of some important dating red flags, but we don\u2019t want to become overly reliant on them. Or we will lose our true power of attunement.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"To_Be_Smart_In_Dating_Train_In_Attunement\"\/><strong>To Be Smart In Dating, Train In Attunement<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>I suggest instead that you train in true attunement.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t examine or react through fear, but by attuning yourself to the other person\u2019s intent, and to look for his attunement to you!<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s lots of ways that you can test a man for attunement to you. And I recommend banter. <\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t banter back with you, he has trouble attuning, paying attention and connecting, full stop.<\/p>\n<p>To help you add more to your dating arsenal as a woman, here\u2019s an article on<a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/commitmenttriggers.com\/why-women-get-ghosted-by-men\/\"> <strong>Why Men Ghost: 3 Reasons Why Men Disappear &amp; What You MUST Do.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/renee.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"346\" height=\"409\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/renee.jpg\" alt=\"renee wade what to do when he doesn't call\" class=\"wp-image-10736\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/renee.jpg 346w, https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/renee-254x300.jpg 254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 346px) 100vw, 346px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<div class=\"saboxplugin-wrap\" itemtype=\"http:\/\/schema.org\/Person\" itemscope=\"\" itemprop=\"author\">\n<div class=\"saboxplugin-tab\">\n<div class=\"saboxplugin-gravatar\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thefemininewoman.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/e2ccf78e7ae1870538292e38edfe2ff7.jpeg\" width=\"100\" height=\"100\" alt=\"Renee Wade The Feminine Woman\" itemprop=\"image\"\/><\/div>\n<div class=\"saboxplugin-desc\">\n<div itemprop=\"description\">\n<p>Renee is the founder of The Feminine Woman &amp; co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach women how to show up as a high value high status woman whom easily inspires a deep sense of emotional commitment from her chosen man. 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