If you\u2019re here checking for signs he has no feelings for you, chances are you\u2019ve sensed that he has no romantic feelings for you in your gut.<\/p>\n
But that\u2019s not always the case, as some guys can be confusing. These guys may be confused about their feelings for you,<\/strong><\/a> or be dealing with past trauma that makes their behavior erratic.<\/p>\n Not only that, but what manifests as him not having feelings for you could<\/em> be a temporary state of resentment (if you\u2019ve hurt him or he has hurt you, or you\u2019re fighting a lot).<\/p>\n As hurtful as it is going to be to read through some of these signs, just know that life isn\u2019t just this guy.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s natural to want to zero in on this guy and try to get him back. But this often damages our chances more than anything else.<\/p>\n So what you have to do is try to zoom out and:<\/p>\n With that said, let\u2019s get into the signs.<\/p>\n (If you see 5 or more of the signs on this list, that\u2019s the warning sign that you need to pay close attention. If you see 7 or more signs on this list, then you can be reasonably sure he has no feelings for you.)<\/p>\n Any more than 7 signs and you really need to question why you\u2019re bothering with this man.<\/p>\n Related: 6 Burning Signs He Doesn\u2019t Want A Relationship With You.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n If a man has romantic feelings for you, he\u2019s going to want to text, talk and communicate with you at least some of the time.<\/p>\n No matter how busy he is, he\u2019ll want to hear your voice or see your face.<\/p>\n If he never reaches out to you via text, phone or in person, that\u2019s all the answers you need regarding his feelings for you.<\/p>\n If you ever speak to him in person, notice the tone of his voice.<\/p>\n If a man has no feelings for you (or if he is losing interest), he might actually want to push you away.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n One way he can do that is by making his voice more robotic and monotone. He\u2019s not invested in you and doesn\u2019t want to put any effort in you, so he shows it through his voice.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t want you close and he\u2019s trying to communicate that without coming across as an asshole.<\/p>\n Would you like to know how committed he really is to you? You can find out with our quiz here: QUIZ TIME: Is your man serious about committing to you? CLICK HERE to find out with this specially crafted quiz!<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Men who have feelings for a woman<\/strong><\/a> have more resistance to abandoning her.<\/p>\n I mean, if he\u2019s in love, he\u2019ll never abandon you when you\u2019re obviously vulnerable.<\/p>\n He just won\u2019t be able to do it. Unless you\u2019re pushing him away.<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>But even then, he won\u2019t be able to stay away for long.<\/p>\n But a guy who isn\u2019t in love with you probably will, unless he has the identity of being a superb guy with great morals.<\/p>\n Recommended Reading: The No.1 Trait of Dating Profile That Men Fall In Love With.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n \u2026Or just an option.<\/p>\n If he has no feelings for you, he won\u2019t have you, your feelings or your welfare at the forefront of his mind.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll be thinking about work, his family, or other women.<\/p>\n But the real question is: does he even give a damn about how that would make you feel?<\/p>\n If he doesn\u2019t, then he definitely has no feelings for you.<\/p>\n Does he spend time with you after sex?<\/p>\n Is he paying attention to you \u2013at all<\/em> \u2013 after sex?<\/p>\n If he\u2019s not, it\u2019s a warning sign that he\u2019s just not that into you.<\/p>\n A man who has romantic feelings for a woman will find it difficult to leave quickly after sex.<\/p>\n He may even try to drag out the time he spends with her, simply out of love.<\/p>\n So don\u2019t kid yourself \u2013 if he\u2019s always \u201cgot to be somewhere\u201d after you have had sex, he\u2019s likely just trying to leave as quickly as possible.<\/p>\n Maybe he doesn\u2019t want to invest too much in you, have you get more attached to him, or perhaps he doesn\u2019t want to give you the impression that he belongs to you (when he has no intention to.)<\/p>\n MORE: 11 Revealing Signs He Regrets Sleeping With You.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n A clear sign he has no feelings for you is when he pays his phone more attention than he pays you.<\/p>\n Although being married to your phone is commonplace among the younger generation, men in love want to be with<\/em><\/strong> the woman.<\/p>\n They want to pay attention to her.<\/p>\n I mean, they cannot help it! They are irresistibly drawn<\/strong><\/a> to her!<\/p>\n The phone will not compare to the woman.<\/p>\n The exception is some businessmen who cannot leave their phone, as if they do, it means failure of something important.<\/p>\n Regardless, even these types of businessmen will make sure you know and trust that they intend to spend quality time with you when he\u2019s done. If <\/em>he\u2019s in love.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s on his phone too much when around you, it can make you feel bad. So in order to stay high value in this situation, I recommend you say two specific words to him:\u00a0<\/p>\n CLICK to Learn the ONE thing you can say to ANY man that will capture his attention, trigger his curiosity and make him hang onto every word you say!<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n You\u2019ll know it when your stomach drops through the floor you\u2019re standing on. The disappointment and the pain will be a heavy load.<\/p>\n We all find out at some point or other when someone doesn\u2019t really care about us.<\/p>\n The question is: will you be paying attention?<\/p>\n Will you be willing to accept what your gut is telling you?<\/p>\n More than that \u2013 his actions will tell you he doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n One example is: you\u2019ll be telling him things about yourself or your life, and he will laugh them off or be in a rush to leave. He doesn\u2019t want to listen. He doesn\u2019t want to be responsible.<\/p>\n One (less) clear sign a man is losing interest is when all the romance dies away.<\/p>\n I say \u201cless clear\u201d because romance naturally dies off in a committed relationship. It\u2019s impossible to keep up the chasing, the romantic fawning over each other and the gestures at the same level over time.<\/p>\n Sure, some men manage to still bring their girlfriend or wife flowers every week, for example.<\/p>\n But most of the time, even in great relationships, the romance slowly gives way for raising kids together or building a life together.<\/p>\n This is why I say this isn\u2019t a clear sign he\u2019s not<\/em><\/strong> into you. It could just be a natural progression in a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n But it can still be one of the signs when it\u2019s seen alongside other signs.<\/p>\n The key to look for?<\/p>\n When a lack of romantic feelings are coupled with nonchalance.<\/p>\n In other words, not only does he seem to be losing interest in you romantically, he\u2019s also indifferent towards you.<\/p>\n What Is The One Specific Emotional Trigger Within Every Single Man in this World That Inspires Him to WANT to Commit to One Woman & Want to Take Care of Her, Worship Her and Only Her? CLICK to find out.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n This is more of a maybe sign. In other words, a lot of men don\u2019t know how to comfort a woman, even if they\u2019re in love.<\/p>\n They may not need comfort when they\u2019re going through hardship themselves, so they project this need to be alone and undisturbed onto you. (Read more about this in my article: Why Men<\/p>\n But if a guy used to comfort you and now doesn\u2019t anymore, he may have either lost interest, or is processing something emotionally himself.<\/p>\n There are 7 common signs a woman is perceived as low value to all men, because men simply perceive value differently to women. Do you know what these signs are and how to avoid them like the plague? CLICK HERE to download this special report. <\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n If a man is in love with you, he\u2019ll be loyal to you.<\/p>\n This is because if he\u2019s in love, he\u2019ll see you as his one and only.<\/p>\n Only one woman can be in this category for all men.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n And the only <\/em>other category they place the women they date into, is the \u201cone of many\u201d.<\/p>\n A man can desire you sexually and see you as the one of many.<\/p>\n But if he sees you as the one and only, he\u2019ll invest everything in you. He\u2019ll be loyal to a fault.<\/p>\n All of his resources will go to you and he will take pride in providing for you in this way.<\/p>\n But not only that, he\u2019ll barely notice the effort it takes, because he\u2019ll want to commit to you and be loyal to you.<\/p>\n Men never do this for the women in their \u201cone of many\u201d category, however.<\/p>\n Even if they\u2019re sexually attracted to them, and even if they have an emotional connection with them.<\/p>\n MORE: How to Get Him to Commit The High Value Way + 1 Mistake to AVOID.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n So if a man\u2019s not loyal to you, he definitely doesn\u2019t have feelings for you. He\u2019s likely still out looking for his one and only whilst keeping you in the background.<\/p>\n The solution?<\/p>\n Never be the one of many again. Don\u2019t settle for less than that.<\/p>\n And you can ensure you\u2019ll be placed in the \u201cone and only\u201d basket from now on by learning the 5 feminine secrets to having him fall in love with you and BEG you to be his one and only. I show you how to do this in my program \u201cBecoming His One And Only\u201d. CLICK here to discover more.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n If a guy wants you for himself, he\u2019s not going to like it when you talk about how hot some other guy is.<\/p>\n In fact, if you even hint <\/em>at the fact that another guy is desirable or powerful in some way, he will react to it.<\/p>\n He\u2019s not stupid.<\/p>\n And he wants to protect the relationship (and the woman) he sees as his.<\/em><\/p>\n But wait \u2013 what if you mention another guy\u2019s biceps and he smiles in agreement?<\/p>\n What if you tell him about the guy who kept hitting on you at work and he laughs like a good friend would?<\/p>\n Well\u2026<\/p>\n Need I say anymore?<\/p>\n \u2026Like:<\/p>\n If a man is emotionally attached to you<\/strong><\/a> and he cares about you, you\u2019ll be surprised to see that he remembers little details about you, even some details you\u2019ve forgotten about yourself.<\/p>\n It\u2019s just how they are when they\u2019re falling in love.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Does he:<\/p>\n Then he might not have feelings for you. Or he\u2019s lost interest.<\/p>\n Does he read your texts but never reply?<\/p>\n That\u2019s a major red flag.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n If you\u2019re in this situation, don\u2019t chase him.<\/strong><\/a> No matter how great he is, we need to keep your dignity intact.<\/p>\n The greatest asset we have is our time.<\/p>\n But we won\u2019t hesitate to give the gift of our time to someone we\u2019re in love with. In fact, it\u2019s painful not to give our time to them.<\/p>\n A man who wants you will desire physical contact with you, period.<\/p>\n He won\u2019t like being away from you for too long.<\/p>\n Sure, we all have to go away on occasion (sometimes often), but you\u2019ll feel where his centre of gravity is.<\/p>\n Is it to come back to you?<\/p>\n Or is it to pick up other women?<\/p>\n Only you can answer that.<\/p>\n Is he looking around at other women when you\u2019re speaking to him?<\/p>\n Does he have that glazed over, zoning out look in his eyes?<\/p>\n Or, maybe he\u2019s more interested in talking at<\/em> you, and prefers to dismiss what you have to say.<\/p>\n That\u2019s not a healthy, reciprocal relationship.<\/p>\n That\u2019s also a one-sided conversation. Some even call it conversational narcissism<\/a>.<\/p>\n And I hate to break it to you, but real nascissists can\u2019t fall in love. So don\u2019t expect him to have feelings for you.<\/p>\n If everything used<\/em> to feel right, but you\u2019ve felt him slipping further away for a while, then perhaps things aren\u2019t so right anymore.<\/p>\n Perhaps the party\u2019s over.<\/p>\n Maybe you guys were only meant to come together for the short-term. Maybe you were never meant to be together at all.<\/p>\n MORE: 22 Sad Signs The Relationship Is Over For Him.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n Not every failing relationship is doomed forever of course.<\/p>\n But you still need to be aware enough to know when a man\u2019s heart and emotions are out of reach.<\/p>\n For yourself.<\/em><\/p>\n Whether you stay and fight for your relationship or not is truly up to you and your unique circumstances.<\/p>\n This is a strong sign that a man is either detaching from you, or he wasn\u2019t ever yours to begin with.<\/p>\n If the bulk of his free time and energy is going to chasing other women, then to him, you may have been in the same category as those other women he\u2019s chasing (the one of many).<\/p>\n I understand it\u2019s tempting to fall for a guy who comes on strong<\/strong><\/a> and gives us lots of attention in the beginning.<\/p>\n But that\u2019s just a strategy.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t always mean that you\u2019re \u201cthe one\u201d in his mind.<\/p>\n We really have to take the time to test men.<\/strong><\/a> As women we can be vulnerable to men who say the right things and refuse to leave us alone (even if they\u2019re just looking for sex or attention).<\/p>\n That was making plans,<\/em><\/strong> not talking about plans.<\/p>\n If he\u2019s into you, he\u2019ll make plans for the both of you. Even smaller plans like going on a weekend trip away.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll take your desires, wants and goals into account and he\u2019ll want to include you in all of his future plans.<\/p>\n But if he isn\u2019t doing that \u2013 if he isn\u2019t talking about, or making plans for the future at all \u2013 it could mean he\u2019s either not that into you, (ie: he wants to leave space for another woman), or he\u2019s losing interest.<\/p>\n Some men are willing to keep women they don\u2019t really fancy hanging around \u2013 but they\u2019ll make sure you only exist in the background.<\/p>\n Either because they don\u2019t want you thinking they\u2019re committed to you, or because they\u2019re not proud of the relationship \u2013 for whatever reason.<\/p>\n If this is you, it\u2019s no easy reality to come to terms with.<\/p>\n We all want to be with someone who is proud to show us off and be seen with us.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t convince yourself otherwise \u2013 for any <\/em>reason. There\u2019s no excuse he could give you that would make this ok.<\/p>\n\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n#1: You Have To Initiate Contact All The Time<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n#2: His Communication is Monotone<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#3: He Abandons You When You Need Him The Most<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#4: He Doesn\u2019t Mind Making You Feel Like An Afterthought<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a>#5: He Leaves Quickly After Sex<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#6: He\u2019s Always On His Phone When He\u2019s Around You<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#7: He Simply Doesn\u2019t Care (& You\u2019re In Denial About It)<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n#8: He Is Not Romantic With You Anymore<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n#9: He Never Comforts You<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#10: He\u2019s Not Loyal To You<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#11: He Doesn\u2019t Mind You Talking About Other Guys (No Jealousy)<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n#12: He Forgets Important Details About You<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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#13: His Body Language Screams Indifference<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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#14: He Doesn\u2019t Mind Leaving You On Read\u2026Indefinitely<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#15: He Isn\u2019t Spending Time With You Anymore<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n#16: He Doesn\u2019t Pay Attention When You Speak<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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\n\u2026To finally learning the skill of weeding out the wrong types of men, and passing the hardest test of them all\u2026 an accidental pregnancy after a month of dating! (\u2026All by learning one simple skill.)<\/em><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n#17: It Just Doesn\u2019t Feel Right Anymore<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#18: He Is Interested In Other Women<\/strong><\/h2>\n
#19: He Is Not Making Plans For The Future<\/strong><\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/figure>\n#20: He Hides The Relationship From The World<\/strong><\/h2>\n