{"id":1086,"date":"2023-05-01T21:00:10","date_gmt":"2023-05-01T15:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/perthescortsdirectory.com.au\/blog\/a-podcast-about-first-dates\/"},"modified":"2023-05-01T21:00:10","modified_gmt":"2023-05-01T15:30:10","slug":"a-podcast-about-first-dates","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/perthescortsdirectory.com.au\/blog\/a-podcast-about-first-dates\/","title":{"rendered":"A Podcast About First Dates"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8831\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (2)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8831 size-full lazyload\" title=\"dating\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png\" alt=\"dating\" width=\"1200\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8831\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (2)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8831 size-full lazyload\" title=\"dating\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?resize=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"dating\" width=\"710\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-2.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/link.chtbl.com\/KyleBenson\">This is Dating<\/a> is a podcast about something that we can all relate to \u2013 first dates! Throughout the podcast episodes, you will be able to witness first dates from a perspective you\u2019ve never been able to before. The hosts, Join Hiwote Getaneh, Logan Ury, Jesse Baker, and Eleanor Kagan guide people\u2019s first dates. Listen in on conversations and experiences while also learning about connection, relationships, and how to navigate dating in the current state of the world.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Along with this, I encourage you to check out Logan Ury\u2019s book <\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.loganury.com\/book\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Not Die Alone<\/span><\/i><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. As the Director of Relationship Science for the dating app Hinge, Logan utilizes her expertise to bring you a data-driven thorough guide to relationships. Learn with step-by-step instructions with hands-on exercises to find (and keep) the love that you want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because This is Dating and <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Not to Die Alone <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">include such important information and expertise about dating, I wanted to provide everyone who was interested with more information on what they can expect from this podcast and these hosts.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Logan Ury and Jesse Baker were generous enough with their time to answer some questions that would shed some more light on the This is Dating\u00a0 and how meaningful and impactful it can be for listeners. Check it out!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><b>About the Podcast:\u00a0<\/b><b\/><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>How did you get started on this podcast? Where did this idea come from, and what was your main motivation to start this project?\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><i>Logan:\u00a0<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We were inspired by the creativity and resilience of daters during the pandemic. While much of the world paused, dating did not. People were still looking for love, and shifting to video and phone call dates to do that. We used the relatively new medium of Zoom dates to capture the lovely and cringeworthy moments of first romantic encounters.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What motivates me in the work I do is to help people discover what\u2019s holding them back from finding love. By working directly with the dating coaching clients on the show, I was able to help them move past some of their bad patterns. And, by listening in on the coaching sessions and the dates, our audience is able to gain new insights into their own dating behavior. We encourage listeners to ask themselves similar questions about their own dating lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Jesse:<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think the idea for the show came from a very lonely place.\u00a0 It was the start of the lockdown when anxiety was high and we were all looking for ways to be together when we could no longer gather.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This was a space I have worked in for the last few years with the therapist Esther Perel on another podcast.\u00a0 Sitting in on conversations you normally would not get to be a part of is a world I know well.\u00a0 I also know the value too of being able to listen in to the lives of others and how much of our own lives we hear in the stories of others.\u00a0 So this was a shift from couples to singles but the same intention to leave daters in a better place.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8834\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-4\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (4)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8834 size-large lazyload\" title=\"dating\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4-1024x437.png\" alt=\"dating\" width=\"710\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8834\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-4\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (4)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8834 size-large lazyload\" title=\"dating\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?resize=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"dating\" width=\"710\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-4.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<h2><b>Dating Tips &amp; Advice:<\/b><b\/><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>What mindset do you advise people in approaching dating with a plethora of apps and the appearance of so many possible romantic partners?\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Logan:<\/strong> <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Great relationships are built, not discovered. A lasting relationship doesn\u2019t just happen. It is the culmination of a series of decisions, including when to get out there, whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, when to settle down with the right one, and everything in between. Make good decisions, and you propel yourself toward a great love story. Make bad ones, and you veer off course, doomed to repeat the same harmful patterns over and over.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But often we don\u2019t understand why we make certain decisions, and that leads to mistakes. And those mistakes thwart our quest to find love. Behavioral science can help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Behavioral science is the study of how we make decisions. It offers a way to peel back the layers of our mind, peek inside, and see why we tend to make certain choices. Spoiler alert: We\u2019re irrational. We often make decisions that are not in our own best interest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This happens in all realms of life. It\u2019s why we say we want to save for retirement and then max out our credit cards on decorating our apartments. Or tell ourselves we\u2019ll exercise more, then use our treadmill as a clothing rack. No matter how often and or how earnestly we set goals, we get in our own way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We can apply insights from behavioral science to understand our own faulty decision making, and then use tools from the field to help us overcome our bad habits.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, dating is a skill, and yes, it can be taught.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Can you tell me about your process of screening date possibilities? What are some things you look for in a person before agreeing to a first date? Or a second date? What are the various ways you have someone decipher if a potential partner is a good fit for them?\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Jesse:<\/strong> \u00a0 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I can tell you what we looked for when we were picking daters to set up on the podcast. \u00a0 We were looking for people who felt stuck and we\u2019re open to some non-conventional help in getting un-stuck.\u00a0 We don\u2019t promise true love, we promise to help you date a little better.\u00a0 We also wanted four daters with very relatable issues when it comes to their love lives.\u00a0 We wanted listeners to come to the dates and hear their own struggles articulated in real time.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We did not want the folks who were an instant yes, but the people who had to sit with this invitation and often came back with more questions around how would all this work exactly?\u00a0 Doing something new that you can\u2019t point someone to an older episode and say \u201cThis is how we operate\u201d is scary and we wanted people willing to be pushed outside of what they always do.\u00a0 Being set-up on the series is an act of trust.\u00a0 You are trusting total strangers with your love life in pursuit of being a better dater,\u00a0 we do not take that trust for granted.\u00a0 We sweated these matches, worried about creating connections with every date and I think you can hear the work and the heart that goes into each of these episodes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>What do you think is the most important part of dating? What is important for a person who wants a long term relationship?\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Logan:<\/strong> <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a dating coach, I discovered that while all of my clients are unique, many of them suffer from dating blind spots\u2014patterns of behavior that hold them back from finding love, but which they can\u2019t identify on their own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve categorized the most common blind spots into a framework called The Three Dating Tendencies. Each group struggles with unrealistic expectations.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe Romanticizer\u201d has unrealistic expectations of relationships. \u201cThe Maximizer\u201d has unrealistic expectations of their partner. \u201cThe Hesitater\u201d has unrealistic expectations of themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>The Romanticizer:<\/strong> You want the soul mate, the happily ever after\u2014the whole fairy tale. You love love. You believe you are single because you haven\u2019t met the right person yet. Your motto: It\u2019ll happen when it\u2019s meant to happen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>The Maximizer:<\/strong> You love doing research, exploring all of your options, turning over every stone until you\u2019re confident you\u2019ve found the right one. You make decisions carefully. And you want to be 100 percent certain about something before you make your choice. Your motto: Why settle?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>The Hesitater:<\/strong> You don\u2019t think you\u2019re ready for dating because you\u2019re not the person you want to be yet. You hold yourself to a high standard. You want to feel completely ready before you start a new project; the same goes for dating. Your motto: I\u2019ll wait until I\u2019m a catch.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On my website you can take a <\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.loganury.com\/quiz\"><b>quiz<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to determine your dating tendency. It will help identify what\u2019s holding you back, so you can break your bad habits and develop new ones. Your tendency impacts your behavior at every stage of the relationship, so it\u2019s crucial to learn yours as the first step along your journey to finding love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Is there an amount of dates someone should go on before deciding to commit to someone? Do you have any research on how attachment styles would influence this?\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><i>Logan: <\/i><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I live in the Bay Area where I meet a lot of \u201cmaximizers\u201d who want to make sure they are with their optimal partner. They think if they could only date everyone out there, it would be easy to pick the right person.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What I try to help them understand is that great relationships are built, not discovered. So, instead of spending all your time wondering who else is out there, find someone great, and put in the work to build that great relationship with them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In general, I recommend that singles go on at least two dates with people. Some folks are \u201cslow burns\u201d and take longer to open up. You\u2019re missing out on a lot of great potential matches if you only judge people based on the first date.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In terms of deciding when to commit to someone, one of my favorite relationship philosophies is: \u201cDecide, don\u2019t slide.\u201d It means you want to enter different stages of the relationship by making an intentional choice about moving forward, not just sliding into it. So you don\u2019t want to move in together just because your lease is up, you want to move in together because you\u2019ve had a conversation about what moving in together means to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You want to make sure that you and your new love interest have a frank conversation about if you\u2019re both ready to commit and move to the next stage. You don\u2019t want to make assumptions. Decide, don\u2019t slide.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8835\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-5\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (5)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8835 size-large lazyload\" title=\"dating\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5-1024x437.png\" alt=\"dating\" width=\"710\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8835\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-5\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (5)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8835 size-large lazyload\" title=\"dating\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?resize=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"dating\" width=\"710\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-5.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Are there aspects of dating that are oftentimes overlooked or not talked about?\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><i>Logan: <\/i><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The spark. I get it, the spark is wonderful. But you know what? F**k the spark. The concept is my nemesis: I\u2019ve come to see our obsession with the spark as one of the most pervasive and dangerous ideas in dating. It causes us to miss out on amazing partners because we fail to see their true potential.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Myth #1: When you meet the right person, you\u2019ll feel instant fireworks.<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>The Truth: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fireworks and instant chemistry are often absent at the beginning of a relationship. Good sex and chemistry can build over time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Myth #2: The spark is always a good thing.<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>The Truth: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not. Some people are just really good at making a lot of people feel a spark. They\u2019re really sparky! Maybe they\u2019re extremely attractive. Perhaps they\u2019re best-in-class flirts. Sometimes the presence of a spark is more an indication of how charming someone is\u2014or how narcissistic\u2014and less a sign of a shared connection.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You may also think you feel the spark when your date is playing games or sending mixed signals. People often confuse anxiety for chemistry (I\u2019m talking to you, anxiously attached friends out there!). It\u2019s time you learned to correctly identify that feeling. Then start looking for a different type of partner\u2014someone secure who doesn\u2019t make you doubt their feelings. Stop believing that if a dependable person doesn\u2019t give you butterflies, it must not be love. It\u2019s still love, just not the anxious kind.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Myth #3: If you have a spark, the relationship is viable.<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>The Truth: <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if the spark leads to a long-term relationship, it\u2019s not nearly enough to keep the relationship going. I\u2019ve spoken to couples who stayed together years longer than they should have, all because of the spark. Many divorced couples once had the spark.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t pursue the wrong relationship because you met the \u201cright\u201d way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>For people who are actively dating, and tired of first dates, how would you encourage them to keep trying to find a relationship?\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><i>Logan: <\/i><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make dating more fun by adding in an element of play. For example, can you go to a park and run around until you pet five cute dogs. Can you go on a dumpling crawl, trying all the best spots in town?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can come up with outside-the-box date ideas Here are some that my clients and I have come up with:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Visit a farmers\u2019 market and then cook brunch.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Go roller-skating.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Create a two-person hot-sauce-tasting contest.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Watch YouTube to learn a dance from a favorite childhood <\/span>music video.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do karaoke.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">See an old movie and then discuss it over a walk.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Take a cooking class.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Go for a bike ride and bring a picnic.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Try swing dancing.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Check out the stars at the local observatory.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Rent scooters and explore the city. (Bring helmets!)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Play games at a local arcade. (Bring quarters!)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Bring watercolors to the park and paint pictures of the same <\/span>tree (or each other!)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8836\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-7\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (7)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8836 size-large lazyload\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7-1024x437.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"710\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8836\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/blog-posts-2021-7\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?fit=1200%2C512&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1200,512\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Blog Posts (2021) (7)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?fit=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?fit=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8836 size-large lazyload\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?resize=710%2C303&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"710\" height=\"303\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?resize=1024%2C437&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?resize=300%2C128&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?resize=768%2C328&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Blog-Posts-2021-7.png?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<h2><b>The Podcast:<\/b><b\/><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>In your experience with the show, what is the #1 thing that people tend to focus on when dating?<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Logan:<\/strong> <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It really depends on the person. One of the biggest things I work on with my clients in general is helping them understand their dating blind spots \u2014 attitudes or patterns of behavior that hold them back from finding love. Once they understand what\u2019s holding them back, we design new systems to help them choose a different path.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em><strong>Jesse:\u00a0<\/strong><\/em> Did we get to a second date? That was at least the goal we had with every set-up, did we get them to a place at the end of the date that they wanted to keep the conversation going. \u00a0 That is what success was for the producers listening in.\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>If someone is interested in being on your show, what is the best way for them to go about doing this?<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><i>Jesse:\u00a0 <\/i><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s very easy, <\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSfviZzYn0SeliodPfPHBUYYkBn2s5prCG6QMCI2rOskqhJCkg\/viewform?usp=send_form\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">go here and fill out the application<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0 You will be in good company!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Where can they listen to your show? (we can always add this information ourselves, of course)\u00a0<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Jesse:<\/strong>\u00a0 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can listen for free on any platform you fancy (just <\/span><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/link.chtbl.com\/KyleBenson\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">click here<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to find our full list of podcast apps!).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/link.chtbl.com\/KyleBenson\"><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8837\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/https___f-prxu-org_522_images_593d45bd-94b6-40f0-b852-832041816dbb_thisisdating_podcasttile_r1-1\/\" 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200px\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8841\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/jesse-baker\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Jesse-Baker.jpg?fit=1066%2C1600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1066,1600\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Jesse Baker\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Jesse-Baker.jpg?fit=200%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" 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style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Sporting Life<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with Jeremy Schaap. Later at Audible, she led a large team of creative makers as vice president of original content. She produced a number of the company\u2019s most successful<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8842\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/logan-ury\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png?fit=165%2C197&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"165,197\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Logan Ury\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png?fit=165%2C197&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png?fit=165%2C197&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-8842 alignright lazyload\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"165\" height=\"197\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-attachment-id=\"8842\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.kylebenson.net\/this-is-dating-podcast\/logan-ury\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png?fit=165%2C197&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"165,197\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;\" data-image-title=\"Logan Ury\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png?fit=165%2C197&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png?fit=165%2C197&amp;ssl=1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-8842 alignright lazyload\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.kylebenson.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Logan-Ury.png?resize=165%2C197&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"165\" height=\"197\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Behavioral scientist turned dating coach <\/span><b>Logan Ury <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is an internationally recognized expert on modern love. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, Logan leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. After studying psychology at Harvard, she ran Google\u2019s behavioral science team\u2014The Irrational Lab\u2014and created the popular interview series \u201cTalks at Google: Modern Romance.\u201d She is a 2018 TED Resident. Logan lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. She credits her relationship success to the techniques outlined in her book <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How Not To Die Alone<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. She\u2019s written about dating and relationships for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">TIME<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thrive Global<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">PopSugar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forward<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">P.S. I Love You<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and more. 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